He could be setting up you just to see if you would try to make a move on him. For some strange reason, when many str8t guys find out that you're gay, they tend to wonder why you never made a pass at me. I have had this happen to me a couple of times where the guy just came out and asked me why I never made a move on him. In fact, I remember when I lived in Atlanta and this good looking couple lived next door to me and they were really neighborly towards me considering that I was from the same city that they lived in prior to their move to Atlanta. They would invite me over all the time for breakfast or dinner and I remember this one time, the wife had knocked on my door and asked me over and while we were sitting in the kitchen talking, her husband came out butt naked and straddled me with his arms around my neck. I was so shocked and I can tell by the look on her face that she was not pleased. A few days later, he came by my place and said that his wife was working late and he wanted me to go on a drive with him. While he was driving, he asked me why I never made a pass at him and don't I find him attractive. I replied "Yes, I think you are very attractive, however, you are married and your wife has been very good to me, so why would I want to do something that I know would hurt her"?..he just looked at me and smiled. However, not too long after that, I was over their place playing poker, when he excused himself and came back again butt naked with a hard-on. This time, his wife gave me a really nasty look and when he approached me, I immediately pushed him away and told him that I thought what he was doing was not only disrespectful to his woman but disrespectful to me to think that just because I'm gay that I would go after any hot guy despite his situation and don't assume that all gay guys are like that because we're not. I also told his wife that I can tell by the way she looked at me that something was told to her by him and I am here to tell her that I did not make any advances towards him and do not plan on it because I am not that kind of guy therefore, I think it would be best if we distance ourselves from each other. A week later, his wife came by and asked if she could talk to me where she revealed that he was trying to set me up to see if I would make any kind of advances towards him because he is very conceited and feel that no one can resist him and to prove her wrong because she could tell that I was a very decent and respectable guy and the only reason why she gave me that look is because he told her that I did make a move towards him while she was not home. But after what happened a few nights ago, she knew he had lied on me. With that being said, keep it as friends because things can really get carried away. From all that had occurred, I really believed that this guy was on the downlow and I just did not want parts of his little game. I can't explain it, but for some odd reason, some str8t guys like to put gay guys on blast so that they can say that you want them and put your business out.
We know our relationsship is very special but it's the best thing we ever have! Stayed friends is the best adviced I can gave you!
