age gap am I crazy?

[loretta]

I do not know what came over me, but yesterday i had sex with a 20 year old boy. we met in the fields where i was walking with my dog, he came with me for a coffee and we ended having fun. this was never planned nor do i find twinkies attractive, i am into hairy masculine men, it just happened. i do not have bad feelings or regret anything, but this is so outside my normal behavior and he is so young, i am 50 years old now.
he wants to meet again - what shall i do? it was surprisingly fun (young man in his full power is not bad at all ) is it ok to have no string sex while looking for mr. right?

 

[HettoreConti]

The more you look for something, the more it hides from one. If the guy is willing to spend time with you, then spend time with him.

Who knows, this 20 something year old twink might as well be your "Mr. Right". Be adventurous and live for us who can't for a diversity of reasons. Dance, laugh and laugh again, love, run. Bequeath to us a sliver of your happiness.

 

[jw4833]

I don't see nothing wrong with it. I have been with a couple of guys around his age bracket and I look at it as two consenting adults engaging in hot sex. With that being said, apparently, you've must have done something right because he wants to see you again, however, when I did it, I took it for what its worth and I also did it a few times until I stumbled upon "Mr. Right" so, I say....Go For It, Hot Daddy!!!!..Get Your Groove Back...lol

 

[AleXXX UK]

What do you want? What does he want? Is it the same? If so here's your answer.

 

[gb2000ie]

Sounds like it was a positive experience - as long as both parties agree that it's no strings sex then I don't see a problem. Where things would go wrong would be if either of you wanted more than the other from the encounters.

B.

 

[Urban]

is it ok to have no string sex while looking for mr. right?

Seriously? How old did you say you are?

I'm kidding! Of course it's OK; it's OK whether you're looking or not. The only time it's NOT OK is when you're in an exclusive relationship.

HAVE FUN!!!!!

 

[petrovic]

When I was 19 I was having sex with a 49 year old. It was one of the best times of my life. Sometimes a younger man just wants to be with someone with is more intellectually stable.

 

[dudemann]

I do not know what came over me, but yesterday i had sex with a 20 year old boy. we met in the fields where i was walking with my dog, he came with me for a coffee and we ended having fun. this was never planned nor do i find twinkies attractive, i am into hairy masculine men, it just happened. i do not have bad feelings or regret anything, but this is so outside my normal behavior and he is so young, i am 50 years old now.
he wants to meet again - what shall i do? it was surprisingly fun (young man in his full power is not bad at all ) is it ok to have no string sex while looking for mr. right?

as long as you're both into it, and he's 18, go for it!

 

[AleXXX UK]

It's not just the sex though, it's the personality, charm, rapport. Maybe he's very mature for his age and maybe you're still young at heart. You might be perfect for each other. He could be your Mr.Right

 

[js324]

Why not? No one said you have to be celibate while waiting for Mr. Right, for all you know it could be this guy. If it happens to be someone else you meet at some later point in the future, you can always end it with this guy.

Just make sure you do 2 things though

1. Make sure he really is 20, I could get waiters to serve me alcohol when I was 17, you don't want to end up finding out he's jail bait

2. Make sure to have safe sex, b/c while this maybe out of the norm for you, but it could be completely normal for him. Who's to say he's not going to the park and hooking up with a different guy every single day?

 

[loretta]

hi guys,
thanks very much for your advices. i have met him again, sex is fun
i am much more relaxed now and i will see what will happen in future
i think i was a bit in a panic and confused when i started this thread, my boyfriend broke up, i had my 50th birthday (dont like) and was depressed. when suddenly this boy appeared i was totally confused
i am normally not into one nighters or so, sex has to go with emotions i thought, but now i change my point of view
as we say in germany: je oller, je doller - the older, the crazier

have a nice day and a hot night to all of you

 

[brmstn69]

Dude... You'd be crazy not to hit that shit...:devil:

 

[AleXXX UK]

Dude. Bone that ass.

 

[erikjagr]

You're consenting adults. Go for it!

 

[whtlkn4blknil]

It's nice that you realize the enjoyment of it and the confusion of your initial meeting. Enjoy the play times while they're available.

 

[fanno1uk]

u so lucky lol

 

[sheppup]

Wow! Do you realize how many fantasies you can build out of a friendship like that? Daddy/son, doctor/patient ......the list goes on and on. If neither one of you is regretful - go for it!