In my last post, I asked for advice about whether I should get involved with a man who had a child. Several of you responded, but one in particular gave me great insight on the subject (you know who you are) and I couldn't have been more grateful. Unfortunately, the situation was too much for me. Since his daughter was only five, visitation was every other week. He worked hard and time was just too scarce. Wonderful guy, I must say (just not the guy for me.) Still I think I've learned something by having gone through that experience. I need to really focus on what "type" of man I'm interested in dating. I should start a list of who's "acceptable" and who is not when it comes to matters of heart. For Instance : Crack-heads - a great untapped resource. They have lots of energy and look good in skinny jeans. Sure, they'll probably steal all my shit, but I have homeowner's insurance, so most of that stuff can be replaced. Another example: Hustlers - great people skills with the unique talent for spotting business opportunities on practically every corner. You can't buy that kind of talent...well actually, o.k. never mind. (If you haven't guessed, yes, I'm using humor here.) So who is on your list of most date-able and eligible bachelors. Hands off the crack-heads and hustlers, they're mine! (Do me proud guys and make me laugh.)
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