Anywhere to find young gay guys?

[meguro33]

Hi guys, I've been a member for a while but I never really posted anything so here goes my first one!

First of all, I'm a 21 year old male in the LA area and I knew I was bi since young. I've been getting with girls but I've never really had any attraction with guys. (I'm single now) I'm discreet because of various reasons so I could never dare to make any suggestion to gays and bi-curious guys around me.

I've gone to gay spas around but to my disappointment, I couldn't find guys around my age. I thought about craigslist but I feel hesitant to do so. Is there anywhere I can find any guy from 18-25 (may be 30) who is willing to help me explore the other side of sexuality? I've been trying to explore by myself but have had hard time locating my prostate ~X(

I like surfing and most of outdoor sports (with the exception of rock climbing) If there is any LA locals who can tell me where I can start from mutual j/o to full sex, please give me some advice.

meguro33

 

[Jonesy92]

I'm afraid I don't know much about US gay scenes, but here in the UK, in my local city they have a gay night once a week in many bars. Maybe in your area however there are dedicated gay bars? Otherwise, there are always dating/liasing sites that can help find guys in your area. Otherwise, a normal night out on the town, you're bound to bump into the odd gay/bi.

I don't think I've offered muc insight and I've never even come close to circulating in any of my local gay scenes so my experience is very obscure and very limited... but hey, I'm just throwing some ideas at you buddy ^^

 

[titanium833]

oh my god !
i always thought usa is the real gay heaven and u always are able to find new gays ,
im living in iran in a very fucking religious city but i always can find myself some hot guys
isnot there any gay club or somthing ?!
i hope u find what u want my american friend , and happy new year .

 

[brmstn69]

Hello? You live in LA, try West Hollywood...

With 40% of the population identifying themselves as gay you have a much better chance of hooking up than I do here amongst the corn stalks of the mid west...

You have gay bars, gyms, beaches, restaurants, etc. galore there. Hell, just walking down the street you have options...

http://losangeles.gaycities.com/overview/

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

... I knew I was bi since young. I've been getting with girls but I've never really had any attraction with guys.

I'm having a problem getting my head around this. You are attracted to guys, or you are not?

If you can't find yourself someone in L.A., then I wonder if the problem lies with yourself. Are you genuinely interested in men for their own sake, or is this a fallback position because you have not been successful in reltionships with women? Lots of gay men (not all) are unhappy with the idea that the other guy is only treating them as a woman substitute. Also maybe you should worry less about "being discreet". You can't have it both ways - it's up to you whether or not to hide your attraction to other men, but if you actually want to meet them, sooner or later you have to put yourself out there.

Sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear, but you did ask, and this is what I think.