Are You Attracted to...Yourself?!

[logan222]

I always wondered about this when it comes to gay men and women (and bisexuals too). If you are gay (or bi), then that means you are attracted to people of the same sex...AND since you are also of your own sex, that qualifies yourself. But I feel like people don't go around being attracted to themselves. It just doesn't seem like that's what people do. I'm definitely not attracted to myself even when I feel like I look attractive.

So, are you or have you ever been attracted to yourself? It might be easier for you to visualize yourself as a separate person. Would you, with your own preferences, ever be attracted to this separate person that looks exactly like you?

For me, I never really thought too much about it. I guess I always thought to myself that I was off limits for myself. :rofl:

However, if I were a different person, I think I might be attracted to myself (or someone that looks like me)...but there'd have to be something different about this other person (like personality, etc.) because I would feel uncomfortable being with someone that is completely identical to my current self in physical form and all other forms as well.

Haha, I got this question by watching P!nk make out with herself in the "Sober" video.

 

[Cherylicious]

Nope, I don't find myself to be attracted.

 

[Sinnerr]

Interesting theme. I would say I'm just good friend to me. I care about myself but I'm not my lover. I smlie on me in front of mirror but never wanked there. And think I'm absolutely normal same as you are.

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

For many years I have convinced myself that I wasn't so attractive even when I was praised as an escort and porn performer. I wouldn't understand what made people want me so much as I was the last person to want myself. Until I met Alex who proved me otherwise. What in the world made me so attractive to a guy that could compete with any other super model dudes in this world find so hot on me, beside the big cock, John Holmes may have had a huge cock, but he wasn't the most beautiful dude on earth, Ron Jeremy can brag of having fucked over 500 women in his career, but he is still a not too attractive dude (and my cock is bigger than his).

And he told me; your charisma! As per Alex I have a very powerful charisma that attract everything and everyone to me; beauty, crazies, not so beautiful etc. I'm frank, not shy of words, very straightforward and not blind by other people's beauty. And obviously as per Alex I'm one heck of a cute guy, not the stereotypical black dude with 6 foot 2 playing basketball and smelling sweat. I suck at basketball and I hate body odors (at least for myself) .

It is very difficult to appreciate oneself, even Alex that is a very attractive blond Australian/Pacific dude, will sometimes believe that he's not attractive at all, while everyone else would even find him cute when he's taking a dump or throwing up his guts. Beauty is really in the eyes of the ones who look and you're often the worst judge of oneself. I do find that I have a very sexy body but I do not think much of my face while Alex think much of everything on me, he likes my face and my body and I just love him period .

Alex have been working with the same agency that employs Francisco Lachowvsky and I have been working with one of the predominant gay porn studio in France, but beauty is really in the eyes of the one who looks and quite often not in your own eyes when one look at oneself. :cheers:

 

[logan222]

Jake, you and Alex are still in the porn industry? Is there anywhere where we might be able to "confirm" this? :thumbs up:
Or at least to get to see your faces? By your descriptions, it sounds like you two are very attractive guys!

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Jake, you and Alex are still in the porn industry? Is there anywhere where we might be able to "confirm" this? :thumbs up:
Or at least to get to see your faces? By your descriptions, it sounds like you two are very attractive guys!

I will only show that privately and beside you can actually see picture of Alex and I in this board but Alex forbid me to ever post pictures of him ever again since he looks very young (at 25 soon 26, Alex looks like a 18 years old) and some people have gone as far as calling me pedophile... And Alex never was in porn... I did I consider myself very normal... not ugly, but not Alex beautiful either... ask Whisper LOL

 

[Whisper]

I will only show that privately and beside you can actually see picture of Alex and I in this board but Alex forbid me to ever post pictures of him ever again since he looks very young (at 25 soon 26, Alex looks like a 18 years old) and some people have gone as far as calling me pedophile... And Alex never was in porn... I did I consider myself very normal... not ugly, but not Alex beautiful either... ask Whisper LOL

Normal? hmm...
Seriously, you do look good

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

Normal? hmm...
Seriously, you do look good

Why thank you sweetie... I'll witness in your wedding with your backup husband just for that :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

 

[Whisper]

Why thank you sweetie... I'll witness in your wedding with your backup husband just for that :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

I will remember this promise

 

[Rebel7]

Frankly...No, but i do like my own company. I'm physically average looking guy with a laid back personality, i get along with myself pretty well although sometimes I'm temperamental and self-critical. Plus...:thinking: i never had myself in mind while masturbating lol

@jaketoronto2004 : you do look good from rear pov, i think the same of the front view

@whisper: don't forget me for your wedding, i'll take great care of booze

 

[Tjerk12]

I really do like that old face in the mirror. And we do match so good together. Especially his points of view are without exception the same as mine. It makes me feel so nice normal. Just wonder why the rest of the world is so different. Would they all be wrong? I will go to the mirror and ask my buddy.

 

[iryhousen]

I am attracted to guys who look like I looked when I was younger.

 

[Sinnerr]

This thread reminded me one (bit silly) joke.
Naked gay guy goes in front of mirror and suddenly his dick standing up. After few second he looks at his dick and says "Oh, what are you doing you fool, thats me!"

 

[redhotchili74]

I am attracted by myself especially when I see somebody attracted by me

 

[bigsal]

No, definitely.

I'm pretty objective to admit that I am not attractive.

But I'm very good about myself, and consequently, well with others.

 

[robbober]

I do not feel i am attractive at all but thats just me.

 

[Whisper]

@whisper: don't forget me for your wedding, i'll take great care of booze

I won't forget

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I will remember this promise

Like I could forget you dum dum Your back up husband is one of my great personal friends :rofl: how did you like his butt dance? )))... will be in Toronto again for work I have to finish this weekend got to update the system... you welcome to join and meet your husband and mine... Yes Alex is suppose to be with us this time. He's such a lazy ass sometime

 

[Whisper]

Like I could forget you dum dum Your back up husband is one of my great personal friends :rofl: how did you like his butt dance? )))

I was just thinking of your age and how it will affect your memory
Oh my... that butt dance almost made me speechless )))
And yes, I would love to join

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

I was just thinking of your age and how it will affect your memory
Oh my... that butt dance almost made me speechless )))

Oh Shut the fuck up you're only a year younger grandma:rofl: