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are you open minded?

Tjerk12

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I like to discuss with people. For me a discussion gets even more interesting when others have a complete different view to things. When they have good arguments I am willing to change my opinion. Do you consider that as a weakness?
 
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Not a weakness at all. I can be quite opinionated at times, but I'm never against hearing another side to things, in fact I welcome it. It's the only way to really get another point of view despite how much you try & weigh up all the angles.

Many times I've changed my perspective or been given something else to consider that I may not have thought of.

It's a strength not a weakness ;)
 

jw4833

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No..I consider that to be very mature to open your mind and look at your views from a different perspective enough to give consideration to change them.
 

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I agree -- not being able to change your mind sometimes is a sign of stuborness -- not weakness.
 

Jamie

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I am stubborn very often but depends on the situation. I am open minded ...or I want to think that I am..again, depends on the situation and the problem in cause. If you like to talk it`s more than OK! I hate mute people...talk about anything! Talk about sex, about the weather, about the coffee, about the trees or the clouds, talk about whatever come through your mind only TALK! Yet again, I hate people who like to brag to show off...like..OK, talk but talk about interesting things. If you start saying: I did this and that and I bought myself this and that and I have that and that ...I can`t listen til the end and I feel I wanna go as far as possible away from you lol. When I talk with someone, I like to hear the psychological details. Like as an example some guy who had sex for the first time...I couldn`t care less about his intercourse and other aspects...I`m more interested in what was in his mind when he knew he will penetrate or will be penetrated...what was his mind full of? any thoughts? Did he clear his mind and after the sex he couldn`t remember anything? while having sex, did he have some pervert thoughts? like I don`t know...pervert things...like deep throating or throat f**ing or some other rough things? And if he did, why didn`t he made them real, what kept him for deepthroating or throat f**ing? Was he ashamed of the thoughts? Or maybe he only wants to see those things in porn and not in real life...lol, like some guy once said: How can you call yourself a man when you have so many blocked fantasies inside your mind? [or something similar]. Well, these are related to sex LOL! but I like these aspects more don`t know why...maybe because I like to "read" people before I can trust them fully.
 

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I am very open minded, but everyone i know is not.. it is very lonely sometimes :(
 
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