as a virgin i need to ask!!!

[cute-zozo]

i am a virgin boy
just asking ... how to make sure that he is the right person to lose my virginity?
just wondering maybe i will lose it with him but how can i make sure that he is the right person ?
tell me your experiences

 

[brmstn69]

If you have to ask, then you already have your answer...

 

[Otage]

Rigth person? In which sense? Like he is the right one for you, the love of your life, or just to have sex with? If you just wanna have sex, then is he is hot he might be the right guy for that

And how to know if someone is the love of your life, well I don't think you can be sure of that, only time will tell. I've had few love of my life's, and well, maybe they were not the right ones

And first time having sex, well for some it's the best sex they can remember, but for the most, I think it's a learning thing. Virginity is over rated

 

[kwhotboi]

Are you looking for love or sex, because they are two different things.

 

[Shelter]

Are you looking for love or sex, because they are two different things.

A very, very good differentiation! The one is not the other!

 

[HustleMe15]

I'll agree with brmstn69 that if you have to ask the question then he is probably not the one that you want to lose you virginity too. I wouldn't do it with a one-night stand either.

Think of this: You will always remember your first time, good or bad, for the rest of your life. Think about that when you are thinking about who you want to have sex with that first time.

I was fortunate to have sex with a good friend of mine a few months before I took off from foster care. He was a couple years older than I was at the time, he was super gentle and was more focused on pleasuring me and getting me off, than he was getting himself off. I think that was the most important part.

Hope that helps with your question!