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bareback sex painful?

lhardwick69

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i watch in porn where bareback sex where the guy acts like it hurts and then you see where guys where condoms but they look like enjoying the fucking..is bareback sex more painful.. i've only done it bareback and i never acted like i was about to die from it
 

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I don't believe that "bareback" is more painful than "condom sex". But I'll understand your question. Very often I've seen such pics as well.

I'm the "bareback"-type ---- but that only because I'm so long together with my BF. All others should use the condom.

Well but the question: when I've had my first sex it WAS very painful because I wasn't used to. But because I wanted it so much I clenched my teeth and after a while it was only fun for me.
 
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i just kind of wondered--i just figured guys act like its more painful and intense to lure guys into bareback sex-- as for me--i began sex young and been fucked by numerous guys many more than once even been in threesomes and couple gangbangs all bareback--never caught any std's at all--i guess i been lucky.all i know is while getting fucked bareback i never felt like it hurt or was more intense--one guy did wear a condom but told him if wanted to fuck the condom had to go--he thought i wanted the condom i was like hell no --he tossed the condom aside quick and slid it in bare--
 

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In my experience, anal sex can be painful - or not. But the difference isn't whether a condom is involved. It has more to do with what you are used to, the luck of the draw regarding physical anatomy, and the skill (or lack thereof) of the top.
 

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Depends on the size and the lubrication. I know size doesn't always matter, but there are some so big it does matter.
 

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Depends on the size and the lubrication. I know size doesn't always matter, but there are some so big it does matter.

So true!!! Some of them can be real murder weapons! But there will be too some which are so, that you will not really feel them. So the very best - as always - will be the golden mean!
 

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i been fucked by guys 11 inches long and some thicker than a popcan all bare--its just never did it with condoms and as i said at beginning of article is guys act like going bare is painful and it makes me wonder hmmm should i be in pain --been fe times it hurt some at first but not much i think i was born to be fuckedor whatever pain there is i enjoy it too much hehe but its like i said i just keep noticing how guys act like it being bare hurts and i dont see why
 

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You have to remember that porn is fantasy and not real or indicative of real-life sexual encounters.
 

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I have been fucked since my teen years and almost always bareback. It just feels more natural and most tops prefer it in my experience.
 

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..is bareback sex more painful.. i've only done it bareback and i never acted like i was about to die from it

:rofl: :cheers:

So true: some of these guys need to get a better grip on their acting skills.

But really, its just the presentation and storyline the studio or clip is trying to convey. Most clips use condoms, so you're more likely to see a "joyfully fucked" vibe in those. Condoms aren't too conducive of "rough sex" fantasies on video, so you're much more likely to see a rougher "ooh, it hurts so much, but don't stop, fuck me HARDER!" vibe in a bareback clip. The whole "I seduced a straight guy" or "a straight guy forced me" trip is more believable without condoms.
 
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Early on I used condoms but been in a long term relationship with my partner
Bareback has never been painful when we were so into the moment I was just able to accept him inside me
The kissing and caressing always made the moment for us
I love him and I love him inside me
 

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Early on I used condoms but been in a long term relationship with my partner
Bareback has never been painful when we were so into the moment I was just able to accept him inside me
The kissing and caressing always made the moment for us
I love him and I love him inside me

Well spoken!!! :thumbs up::thumbs up:
 
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