Blurt it out

[Otage]

If you were going to blurt out to someone of your friend, that you liked them, how would you blurt it out? "I like you" or "Even though we are friends I really have to say this..." etc. And to add just as hypothesis you are gay, and not sure if your friend is. And you have decided that you have to tell and have pondered things for a looong looong time. Just for hypothesis

 

[etilit]

i wouldent blurt it out..but wtf do i know...im still a vergin in gay sex lol

try anything babe use what you feel first lol

 

[HotDougBunz]

Is this an "I like you" or a "I am attracted to you"? Seems if he is a friend he knows you like him. So say to him just what you think. I also assume he knows not of you being gay. That might be the first share and then express your attraction after he has dealt with that part. Give a little more insight on your dilema and I bet you can get better advice

 

[aminirikia]

I think that if you're going to blurt out something you don't really have a chance in
how it will come out, wich is why you just blurt it out. That being said, I happened to
blurt out to one of my friends how much I liked him. I think I had a crush on him for 2 years so I get how you feel, except I was pretty sure he was completely straight ...
He took it pretty well though, with the whole "I'm flattered but...", thankfully we remained friends.

Bottom line, I think "I like you" is a perfect sentence, in case things don't go well
(knock wood) you can always say "not that kind of like!" . If there's a chance of him liking you back then you should take the shot. Keep in mind that he might not be gay, or be gay but not like you back.

Uh, if you follow my advice and things go wrong it's no my fault. BUT if things work out just like you wished you are free to thank me. Hahahaha

Best of Luck!

 

[Armpit Licker]

well, i guess we're on the same boat but i can't really tell you any advice as i myself didn't blurt it out to the guy i like. if you'd like it, i'll share what i'm trying to do now. first i'm trying to observe him, to see and try to predict how he'll receive me when i confess. i give him subtle hints that i like him, but it's not really turning out to my favor right now, but i'm still trying, and i'll never give up, not yet.

i think that if you are an open gay guy, you should just say how you feel if you are confident, and if he rejects you, i think that maybe you deserve something better. follow your heart, it's the best way

 

[jeansGuyOZ]

I'm not going to set myself up as an expert on this.... but maybe one approach to try is to gradually open up about the fact that you are gay or bi, without necessarily focussing on how you feel about him. If he genuinely regards you as a friend, he is not going to stop doing so because he discovers you are gay.

Then, after some time, if he seems comfortable with you as you are, you could pick the right moment and say "You know, I could easily take you to bed", in a half-joking manner. Who knows, it may lead to something, and the worst that is likely to happen is that he laughs and says "Thanks, but no thanks", and that's the end of it.

 

[joesz]

If your friend knows you're gay, and he's not, then I would not say anything unless you're 100% sure that he would understand and may be flattered. If he knows you're gay and is OK with it, I agree with jeansGuyOZ. If both of you are gay, GO FOR IT!

 

[Otage]

Well I'm not "officially out", but I think most of my friends know, since I never deny it and we kid about it a lot (basicly I've said what I am, but not with word "gay). I just feel theres somenthing between us, has been for a long time and I just have to find out. If it's just very good friendship I think it will survive the "revelation". He himself might be very shy with grils straight or a closeted gay. I just wanna "kick" him a little. And I think Aminirikias "I like you" tactic is quite usable, since theres the plan B. Even though not that goog plan B, but often bad lie is accepted more easily just to avoid the possible akward situation

 

[Tjerk12]

I never was the smooth talking type. When I was young I made my conquests mainly in straight bars. I learned that when there is a mutual attraction a look can say more than 1000 words. Maybe that is why I still love eyes and lips so much, they can be very intimate without producing sounds.
But I also had and still have friendships where no sex is involved. No passion, but mutual understanding. Those friendships are nice, for me as important as the passionate ones and tend to last longer.

 

[Otage]

I never was the smooth talking type. When I was young I made my conquests mainly in straight bars. I learned that when there is a mutual attraction a look can say more than 1000 words. Maybe that is why I still love eyes and lips so much, they can be very intimate without producing sounds.
But I also had and still have friendships where no sex is involved. No passion, but mutual understanding. Those friendships are nice, for me as important as the passionate ones and tend to last longer.

Oh wow is there some trick how to see atraction from a look or is it a secret?

 

[scouser87]

i would simply say "do u want to excite my gspot, because i have liked you for a while" but thats just me ey lol

 

[Otage]

i would simply say "do u want to excite my gspot, because i have liked you for a while" but thats just me ey lol

Well now that's just the one I've been looking for! No chance for that he gets me wrong and if he freaks out he will freak out good. Have to drive him into some dark forest before asking to make it even more horrifying for him, and if he responds to my feelings, well, we have a car and privacy:rofl: