Boy Staring At Me?

[rocket123]

:thinking: I'm a senior in High School and so their's this kid who I think is a freshman. He's in my Study Hall and PE Class. Lately I've been catching a glimpse out the corner of my eye of him looking at me. Being that I'm a really shy person, I don't say much about it. But I'm wondering why does he stare at me? but then when I look up and look at him...he turns away as if he wasn't staring? but I know he was. Should I ask him why he stares at me? or just leave it along? :thinking:

 

[tonka]

Talking to him might be ok. Maybe not ask him why he stares. You're a hottie. You get stares. Just say hi if you want to.
But freshman...that's jailbait. No touching.

 

[zortek]

as tonka says, you are a hot guy, if i was him i'd very likely be stealing furtive glances at every opportunity too

you could do as tonka suggests ... a direct approach, but if he is shy or nervous as well it might be a little confrontational for him.

do you like how he looks, or are you interested in knowing more?

next time you catch him staring, flash him a smile, that will let him know you are not going to beat his head in.

then the next time you catch him staring, smile again, and subtly get yourself close enough to say hello and introduce yourself...

a few beautiful friendships have started this way for me ... there are lots of shy, or nervous guys out there ... they don't want to make the wrong move and/or are still feeling their way into life .. sometimes a friendly sign that you are ok with being admired can lead to so much more

 

[gorgik9]

My dear beautiful friend!!! I just wanna say that I hope everything turns out the best way. But I don't wonder why he's looking at you - you're just drop dead gorgeous, and obviously it's not only us GH-members that can't get our eyes off of you - so to speak, and as the old song says! Give him your sweet smile and I bet he'll melt...

 

[rocket123]

Talking to him might be ok. Maybe not ask him why he stares. You're a hottie. You get stares. Just say hi if you want to.
But freshman...that's jailbait. No touching.

Your right, I don't want to freak him out either.