Confusing Story with a close friend

[maddinW87]

Hi guys,

First sorry for my bad english but I want to share my story with you. Maybe one of you was in the same situation like mine.

All began yesterday evening. A close friend invite me to his house to chill with him and his girlfriend and drink something. Everythings seems pretty normal. We drink som alcohol and talk to each other. Than everything has change. His girlfriend go to bed, and we chill and drink. So we make jokes that I can grap his cock but he isn't shaved at the moment. For me thats no problem, I can deal with that. So we decide to go outside and sit there.
Then begin the wired story. We drank a lot and I Feint to grap his cock. He was cool with that and I grap his cock really! Played a bit with that and take my hand away from it.
So I ask him why we are doing this and he can't answer it. So I played with his cock twice and it gets harder and harder. I was looking to the door always because may we get caught by his girlfriend. We go into a small room I play with his dick and start with blow job (I've never do that before). We kissed once or twice and stopped with everything because I was sooo damn wired about and said: I can't do that with the friend of my best girlfriend! He was always cool with that situation. He said no one will never knew about it, that is our secret.

I knew his girlfriend about 12 to 14 years. The both was more than 6 years a couple...


So is there anybody who was in the situation? I'm so confussed about it...

 

[RuG]

so did you give him a blow job after all??

i think if you did stop and did not proceed you did the right thing as you put their relationship first before your need. i think that's pretty damn noble thing to do..

but if you did continue with the blowjob, if he didn't mind and i think (based on your story) that he also encouraged you to do it, well... then it is your dirty little secret with him.

 

[maddinW87]

I stopped that! And said: That's not right, we can't do that! I can't do this. I can't start something with the boyfriend of my best girlfriend! Damn I was so confused! I never thought that will happened because I'm bi, and he is totally straight...

 

[XMan101]

This happens sometimes, especially when you're relaxed and perhaps a little tipsy - and young! I had a similar situation when I was about 19 or 20, it was a one off and we never talked about it again.

It's easy to be moralistic and judgemental after the event, but in the end it's just a natural human instinct when 2 guys get relaxed together, regardless of the main sexual preference, and certainly not unusual.

Don't, whatever you do, expect to have it repeated, and don't persue it. Just keep it as one of those moments

 

[topdog]

...I'm bi, and he is totally straight...

Well, apparently not totally straight. You opened the door, and he went through it.

 

[maddinW87]

I will not repeat it, because the friendship to them both counts too much for me. I don't want to hurt anyone with such things, especially his girlfriend.

So I don't know if you can say I opened a door and he went through. It's a one time situation, and especially we both were drunk, so we made some "stupid" stuff...

But the last time we drunk together with his girlfriend, he took my hand and let me touch his dick and his girlfriend sit next to time. Now we took it to the next level... It's a straight situation I thought

 

[777]

But the last time we drunk together with his girlfriend, he took my hand and let me touch his dick and his girlfriend sit next to time. Now we took it to the next level... It's a straight situation I thought

Did the the touching with the girlfriend near happen before or after what happened between you and the boyfriend alone? I'm confused by the story but something happening while the gf watches sounds hot

 

[maddinW87]

1.) There was the touching session while the girlfriend sits next to me! She said: I can have a three time action with two boys!
2.) few weeks ago there was the touching and everything action with his boyfriend alone.
3.) It's wired for me too!

 

[777]

Maybe you could find out if they'd be interested in some threesome fun... Sounds like they might be

 

[maddinW87]

Yeah, they might be interested, but the friendship means to much for me to risk it for a threesome! And it's a bit strange to have sex with a person you know more than 10 years.
Or would you try the threesome action? I thought about it what will happened when it goes mad for everyone?! Will be the friendship and there relation after that the same?

 

[Urban]

I don't want to discourage you from trying the threesome thing (or a twosome with either one, provided the other one consents), but having sex with one or both will definitely, for all time, change your relationship with both of them. It could be for the better or for the worse, but it will change, without question.

You should consider whether and in what way you want those relationships to change before you do or even say anything.

 

[maddinW87]

I also thought that will change the relationship to each other! It's equal if it's changed to good or worse.

I will not do somehting like that again, that's clear for me! For the boyfriend and me was clear that nobody will always know about it!

Just want to share it, maybe there's a good advice to handle such things? Definitely want the relationship to stay the same as yet, no sexual relationship.

 

[777]

Then you should just be as you were, a friend, and discourage any sexual or other things that would make you uncomfortable. If they or either of them are looking for something, they'll get the message quickly