Continuing on - here we have a fuck gone terribly wrong. What can happen differently in the future to avoid this anal trauma? Here are some ideas.
I have to say that my first impulse is to take these two guys that fucked you and, as one top to another, slap them silly for such irresponsible topping.
A top's primary focus during a fuck should be on his partner - making sure that the partner is both comfortable and sexually stimulated. If he loses that communication and becomes isolated in his own sexual haze, then things go wrong. The bottom can be inured (as happened to you), or he ignore's his partner's sexual needs. Then you have the situation where the bottom is wondering what the heck you are doing back there, and how long will it be before you finish.
However, that said, I wasn't there, and there are other factors that can contribute to this situation.
- Communication - it goes both ways. If the bottom stops communicating, then he bears some responsibility for the result.
- Drugs and Alcohol - both partners need to be 100% in touch with their bodies and able to make good decisions. Drugs especially can encourage someone to throw caution to the wind and not realize that damage is being done.
- Preparation - Good rule of thumb: never let someone else put something in your ass that's bigger than what you've shoved up there yourself. At the gym you stretch your muscles to improve flexibility. The sphincter muscles in your ass work the same way. With regular stretching you can work up to taking something like two cocks.
I hope you are OK. Tell your two partners that next time
they get two cocks shoved up their ass. :angry: