Ever been stuck on a "Str8" guy?

[vidwx]

Apologies if this is over done and what not. Just that yea..as the title implies, im still feeling for this str8, hairy, tatted mexican dude. I know he's downlow bi and what not, as we had a bit of history. Thing is, although i moved on with most my life, i'm still thinking bout him. I know what I felt for him is real and both of us made some bad choices..but yea..something else.

Im an open book, so willing to discuss or talk too. Funny, as when I first got to know him, he was fucking damn annoying and bothersome. Yet somehow, one day while we were working together, I fell hard for him.

A lil back info. He's 30yo, not out, str8 acting, masculine, funny, sarcastic, weird & awkward. I'm 33yo, out since i was 17yo, laidback, just myself and from what people say, they like it and Im apparently a "bitch" too.

 

[topdog]

This is actually much more straightforward than it appears because figuring out your Mexican dude's sexuality is unnecessary. It's really the oldest story in the world. You love him; he doesn't love you. Fade out and roll credits.

Maybe he likes having sex with you. Maybe he likes you as a buddy - "fuck" or otherwise. But you have a problem here - you can imagine a happily-ever-after future together and he can't.

Consider yourself dumped, and start picking up the pieces from there. Put the Mexican hunk behind you (and not in the good way) and start walking. Love is ahead of you. Lean on your friends for support. Plan something special for the future - maybe for the holidays to give you something to look forward to, and invest in you current life.

Mr. Latino will have to get his jollies elsewhere because you deserve better than that.

P.S. - When you asked for advice about being stuck on a Str8 guy, I was picturing you literally impaled on a str8 cock that you couldn't get off of. I guess we have all been there.

 

[XenoClocke]

I fell for a straight guy in college. The funny thing is he was supposedly gay and on his way to coming out. We hooked up a couple of times and had a falling out when I tried showing him I wanted more.

 

[FrankieD69]

Younger than me!

I am obsessed with a guy at work who is 19 and i`m 50!

 

[Whtrbbit]

I'm friends with this biracial sexy latino/Italian guy. He has a beautiful wife and he's an awesome guy. Honestly, i would rip his clothes off in an instant if he gave signs he wanted to have sex. LOL!!!

However, he a good friend and has always been kind and caring to me. I'm happy we just remain friends.

 

[Otage]

When I was in shcool, nobody "was" gay, and none of those people still aren't. So yeah, I've been stuck on straight guy since everybody were straight.

And it's normal that your past crushes, ex'es etc. comes to your mind every now and then. It's bit like someone close to you diying, you don't forget them, but your relationship turns into memory relationship. These things makes us who we are, makes us find out what we like etc. We can't benefit from social interaction if we just forget about everything.

 

[trencherman]

When I was in shcool, nobody "was" gay, and none of those people still aren't. So yeah, I've been stuck on straight guy since everybody were straight.

And it's normal that your past crushes, ex'es etc. comes to your mind every now and then. It's bit like someone close to you diying, you don't forget them, but your relationship turns into memory relationship. These things makes us who we are, makes us find out what we like etc. We can't benefit from social interaction if we just forget about everything.

So much truth there that I share. That’s why I like showing up in homecomings and reunions, serves as a consolation considering how quickly they lost their sheen and appeal.

 

[mattla]

For me this always has been a bit different. I have had little crushes or fantasies about guys that I knew but once I got to know them better I think the reality that they were straight stopped the fantasies. It did not stop me from being friends or acquaintances with them it just seems to stop my mind from wandering off and making more than that of it.

 

[lhardwick69]

well I am stuck on this one guy right now--and he is so straight it sucks but as time goes by I have got to see him shirtless without pants on and all was wearing underneath was his boxer briefs and I loved what I saw--the thing is I am 5 11 he is 4 9--skinny and really young looking--he tells me I don't want him his penis too small--I would say doesn't matter--if its tiny id suck on it like a pacifier only this pacifier still has the same outcome of a 10 inch dick..then goofing off at work one night a coworker picks up up from behind bending him ovr and lifting him up by his legs only to have his pants slide down and expose his little ass-I got hard instantly---


he saw it bulging in my pants and smiled--I went with him asked him if that was a smile like you enjoyed me getting hard over seeing your ass---or you smiled because you enjoy being a freakin tease--he said actually a little of both--



one night at work--thats how we know each other--he asked me what did I have in mind if he were to explore the gay side of himself--I was like rub my hands all over body head to toe--front and back then id put my attention on his cock and balls suck tem and then if let me I would lift up your legs push them back and lick your asshole--for a while--he then says thats one thing he is curious about I said what he said having his asshole licked-- says he cant any girls into it but they let him lick their assholes---I was like well you don't have to do anything to me if don't want--but id love to tate that sweet little hole--he wwas like ok then said he was just wondering--again being a tease---

two nights ago--in break room he comes in gets him a pop/soda out of fridge and I wa there--he says look at this you don't want this--he pulled his pants away from his body letting me look into his pants and there his dick was nice and half hard--I was like trust me I do--

I have jacked off like 100 times after that but hopefully he is giving into my urges I keep assuring him he will love it ig give it a chance

 

[Whtrbbit]

Plenty. However, I have never acted upon it.

 

[topdog]

...I have jacked off like 100 times after that ...

I'm betting he's been doing the same thing.

 

[Bluezh]

that's actually good advise. thanks in the name of all of us str8 hunk lovers