Honestly, I guess I've been pretty fortunate in that department because even though I've had only about 4 bfs, they still show me a lot of love and some of them have someone new in their lives. However, every time I would happen to run into either one of them, I am always greeted with a hug and a kiss and they all let me know if there's anything that I need, they are there for me..I don't take advantage of this, because I do respect those who have partners and I'm very self-sufficient..lol