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[mbp5]

Hello gentlemen, just wondering if anyone has any stories of encounters where a partner has said something that turned you off, either before or after the act. What was said?

I'll post something that happened to me a few weeks ago. First off, I'm kind of promiscuous so what I'm about to reveal is kind of funny to me because out of all the times I've been with anyone, and in this case there were two different people on the same day, I've never had anyone say such similar words to me.

With the first guy (who was the third guy that afternoon to pound me, I was really really horny..)...as he's pounding me and feeling my ass, he says, "Ooh, yeah... I just love your smooth baby boy butt." Not sure about you guys, but it rubbed me the wrong way. I'm a 31-year-old man, damn it, though I act younger. Lol. I just asked him if he was close to ming (thankfully he was) so i could find the next guy to play with...

Later on, I let someone suck my dick in a video booth, and after I came in his mouth, which he tried to feed me by kissing me (I pulled away from him, gotta talk about that beforehand) he said, "Your tastes delicious," which was fine, and then he said, "I love your little baby boy dick." Seriously? 1st, I'm pretty average (or will be after losing weight) but I've seen a decent amount of smaller dicks, too. 2nd, I'm a 31-year-old man, damn it. :angry: To his credit, though, he did say afterwards, "that probably wasn't the best thing to say, but I loved your dick."

So... Anybody else?

 

[rvasucker]

Ha ha! I totally get it.
I was screwing a guy and he said "oh yeah, fuck my man pussy."

I managed to keep going but told him not to EVER use that expression.

 

[Croft85]

Ha ha! I totally get it.
I was screwing a guy and he said "oh yeah, fuck my man pussy."

I managed to keep going but told him not to EVER use that expression.

Same big turn off

 

[coscar]

Boy, wish I could say I had 3 guys in one day, I haven't had 3 guys in 10 years.

 

[topdog]

Boy, wish I could say I had 3 guys in one day, I haven't had 3 guys in 10 years.

Nothing wrong with that, if they were the right three guys.

 

[dargelos]

It's not so much what he says as how he says it.
"Oh-yeah-suck-that-big-dick-baby" etc when said in the manner of a bored porn actor who can't act, reading off a cue card, is a good laugh, it is taking the piss out of porn, I am in on the joke and it's fun.
If he says things like that and actualy means it, the effect is the opposite. This is real life, we are not in a cheap porn flick. If you don't know the difference, go back to your laptop.

 

[cranston]

I've had interactions with some guys who try to recreate all kinds of cheesy perverted scenarios. If your partner is hot enough and you are into him enough you won't give a s**t what nonsense comes out of his mouth lol. I just find it can be funny and hot at the same time.

 

[takeitall456]

Many guys dunno what to say while doing it, many somehow think dirty talking would be a big turn-on...
It might be (but saldly most of them are really bad at dirty talking).

Trying to copy/paste a gay porn dialog during real sex is most of the time so ridiculous you might... run away, start deconcentrating by laughing of loud or definitely decide that masterbation is the best way to have fun :rofl:

Just FYI (and lol)

 

[JayR]

Well, maybe about a couple of years ago I had a one-night stand with a guy who had just broken up with his bf. And when we started playing and kissing he suddenly burst into tears of course we had to stop it all and we spent the next few hours chatting and drinking wine but I was a bit upset as my plans for the weekend were ruined X_X