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uu99

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i should never have married a woman..
married since 6 years but loving guys. what next? tell her? :thinking:
 

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Hi uu99

Welcome to Gay Heaven! Really great to have you with us! :cheers:
 

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I think that you should always tell the truth.
So if you are sure, why not.

You know..
Women, you can't live with them, end of sentence. :p
 
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Casanova

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i should never have married a woman..
married since 6 years but loving guys. what next? tell her? :thinking:
You should do what makes you happy and what's best for both you and her.

Of course, the best solution is to tell her and try and live your life to the fullest but this is something only you can decide. We can say what we believe is best for both you and her, but only you know your situation to its fullest. But my advice is to admit to her how you feel, but beware there will be a lot of heartache.

Secondly, I don't believe for a second this was a fail. Sexuality is as complex as life itself and almost everyone of us is capable of doing the same as you.
 

transuckslut

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Not much in this world is black and white, dont beat yourself up over this. Sexuality is a spectrum and all that.
 
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HettoreConti

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Oh, sweety. You have to keep in consideration that unless your wife supports you and truly loves you, you'll be the villain here. Can you imagine what she'll feel when you tell her such thing? She'll be destroyed and probably loathe you for life because of it. She may also feel she was "responsible" for it. I've personally seen cases of women who catch their husbands with other men in bed or otherwise... It really drives them, quite literally, crazy. I don't think you want such pain and confusion for her. You do owe her some honesty, though. Try and take her into counselling and from there, a more or less neutral ground, explain to her your situation, your feelings. That way both of you will have the help of a specialist and you can be freed from it all. Ultimately, it's your choice.

Good luck. We all make mistakes. Do remember that. *HUGS*
 
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