There's an old adage that "if you have to ask...."
It's hopeless. You just aren't going to 'get' it.
Where a fetish comes over you has to do with the whole of your life experience and how your brain wires to it. And although we humans look alike, our inner self can be remarkably contrary. Triggers in memory. Triggers in pain, pleasure, flight responses. Adaptation to environment. That's deeply encoded stuff.
I regret to having few sexual fetish. But I am man enough to stare down the best and worst in myself and I'm very near the conclusion that my affection for white men is so intense it is borderline 'fetish'. (Not in practice, just in intensity.)
Otherwise, I have slight inclinations to fetish, but no strong fetish impulses. I've never done a piss scene even though I think it is erotic. I don't feel the need to actually make it happen, but if it did I would like it. What's the thrill?
Well, for one it's a guy's dick doing it.
Unlike a
shot, it can go on and on and on.
There's performance involved. Visual stimulus.
If it's mild pee, not yellow, not strong, the odor can be arousing.
Basically, its what dicks do and I like dicks.
My favorite ex-porn gay4pay, porn star buddy whipped out his dick on a beach one evening next to me and pissed just inches from me. It took everything in me not to reach out and play with his piss stream.
I was never big on fisting porn, but I've seen some hot, very hot scenes... thank you Titan, thank you HHouse. Being into the guys, I'd be into them reading the phone book. I'd watch with rapt attention. And if it looks like its giving Jason Branch pleasure... well, I'm all in favor of what ever that flavor is.
From a sensation point of view I can understand the allure.
There's a feeling of completeness, the utter dissolution of loneliness that can come from being dicked by something huge. Just filling you up until you imagine you can taste dick in your throat, your ass is penetrated so well. -And if its banging your prostate, well. That's like heaven on earth. I imagine the sensation of being fisted is like that. Multiplied.
Which is reason enough for me that guy's would want to have it done. And like I said, if it makes Jason Branch happy...
I'm a pretty gentle guy. But for some reason I love hand spanking porn. And if a guy wanted it done, I'd beat his ass from here to Sunday. With passion. The firm touch of a palm on a sweet ass. The bloom of red on his cheeks. The adrenaline of physical activity.
I can see where that would be hot.
These things and more are borne out of complex wiring in the brain. If its not doing harm, why the hell not? I'm not into fetish but I support it a 1,000%. What's life without a little kinky spice?