Hey Guys:
I was hanging out at one of my buddies' home last night and his partner had a friend over who wanted our advice on a situation he was going through with his boyfriend. This guy mentioned that his boyfriend is always on his phone and going through his messages constantly. He said that his behavior made him very suspicious as to what was going on. So...he questioned him about this and the boyfriend responded with its nothing for him to worry about. So...in the middle of the night while his boyfriend was asleep...this guy heard his phone vibrating and decided to get out of bed to see who was calling his boyfriend in the early hours of the morning. He decided to go through his phone and to his surprise...he found naked pictures of his boyfriend as well as naked pictures of other guys from various hook up sites. After seeing this...he was so upset and angry that he went into another room frustrated. The next morning while at breakfast ....he confronted the boyfriend about his phone vibrating and that he went through his phone and found the naked pictures of him and others. His boyfriend was a little taken a back but admitted that it was no big deal and nothing to worry about that all was done in just fun.
To conclude...the guy is upset and although he was told by someone that he should leave his boyfriend because this type of behavior unacceptable...this guy still loves his boyfriend and feel that they can work through this. This guy asked me my opinion and I responded with the fact that he is seeking advice on this is a strong indication that if he stayed in this relationship...its quite evident that he will not be able to trust his boyfriend and will always worry about his whereabouts and who he is exchanging naked pictures with or as a matter of fact...has he met with any of these guys in person and engaged in having sex with any of them.
So..what do you guys think?...Would you be able to maintain a relationship with a guy who exchanges naked pictures with various guys from hookup sites? or would this be cause to end the relationship altogether??
As always ...thanks so much for your responses...JW :cheers:
I was hanging out at one of my buddies' home last night and his partner had a friend over who wanted our advice on a situation he was going through with his boyfriend. This guy mentioned that his boyfriend is always on his phone and going through his messages constantly. He said that his behavior made him very suspicious as to what was going on. So...he questioned him about this and the boyfriend responded with its nothing for him to worry about. So...in the middle of the night while his boyfriend was asleep...this guy heard his phone vibrating and decided to get out of bed to see who was calling his boyfriend in the early hours of the morning. He decided to go through his phone and to his surprise...he found naked pictures of his boyfriend as well as naked pictures of other guys from various hook up sites. After seeing this...he was so upset and angry that he went into another room frustrated. The next morning while at breakfast ....he confronted the boyfriend about his phone vibrating and that he went through his phone and found the naked pictures of him and others. His boyfriend was a little taken a back but admitted that it was no big deal and nothing to worry about that all was done in just fun.
To conclude...the guy is upset and although he was told by someone that he should leave his boyfriend because this type of behavior unacceptable...this guy still loves his boyfriend and feel that they can work through this. This guy asked me my opinion and I responded with the fact that he is seeking advice on this is a strong indication that if he stayed in this relationship...its quite evident that he will not be able to trust his boyfriend and will always worry about his whereabouts and who he is exchanging naked pictures with or as a matter of fact...has he met with any of these guys in person and engaged in having sex with any of them.
So..what do you guys think?...Would you be able to maintain a relationship with a guy who exchanges naked pictures with various guys from hookup sites? or would this be cause to end the relationship altogether??
As always ...thanks so much for your responses...JW :cheers:
) shared his wisdom on a similiar case. "It doesn't matter if person cheats on the other, their love doesn't change from that. It's the way how they deal with the situation. If it gets left behind or ignored, it will destroy the relationship" Allright, at least as accurately as I can remember it
