I did bleed a bit afterwards, but just very little. At first I felt little pain, and even though we took it slow and it got feeling good, I found later when wiping a little blood. And we used lube, rimmed, fingers etc. But all on all, it was great, no matter little bleed
And I have quite high tolerance for pain, so smth irritating to me, to some it's painfull
Try to listen to your body. And if you get bit sore, then you'll just have to do the other guy