First time

[Joey3_16]

Ok so I've never had sex with a guy before.. And now i want to take it to the next level and try.. I know I want to bottom.. Just 2 questions.. First, is there anything I can do to make it easier the first time? And 2nd, is there any harm to taking in the ass?

 

[jaykaytooooo]

Unsafe sex is unsafe sex. Taking in the ass is a personal choice with potentially lots of risk.

Other advise is just be as clean as u can be, ur top will appreciate that 1-) for obvious reasons and espceially 2-) if he rims ur hole.

I have had unprotected Bb (bareback) sex but its with my BF of many years. I wouldnt advise it with a stranger, but ur probably ur own adult so good luck!!!

 

[Shelter]

Unsafe sex is unsafe sex. Taking in the ass is a personal choice with potentially lots of risk.

Hi Joey that will be the best advice you can get. If he will be your first one and if he is not a guy you know very long, always be cautios. It will prolong your life!

As well I think it will a bit hurt you if he will penetrate you for the first time. And it will depend too how big and thick the cock of your friend will be. I don't know - but perhaps you have played in the past for yourself with a dildo so that your ass "knows what happens".

But let me tell you - I'm a bottom since a long time now - and I like it so much. And if you are accustomed to - surely you too will like it.

So good luck for your first time. p

 

[SophieSweets]

What they said...
Clean... If that's the case you've got less to worry about, so you relax...
Safe... Less to worry about... so you relax...
Oh and just generally 'Relax'... :-D
That's the best advice... It's muscle in there, If you are relaxed there is no reason you should feel any discomfort...

Oh and don't be surprised if it takes a bit of time to get used to it... It still does with me, but after I'm 'revved up' I love it... so I'd advise a slow start up, with loads of lovely foreplay...

 

[Otage]

Enough lube. And relaxing. And you can try getting used to anal penetration beforehand with fingering or toying,

And if you are asking, that is there any harm in taking in your ass, well then I suggest you study a bit about Sexually Transmitting Diseases. You need to be cautious, and only way to do that, is knowledge about the diseases.

 

[kwhotboi]

I am a BB bottom and have been all my sexual life. I love the feeling of in my ass.
Others above have mentioned the risks so be aware of them. If you decide you want to be a BB Bottom ask your Doctor about PrEP.
Any other questions PM me here or check out my other posts on cleaning and preparing to bottom. I have explained a lot on here.
Most of all relax and enjoy the feelings.

 

[richardbb]

Please make sure to use a condom. And by the way, it’s not just the that can give you nasty diseases: The condom-free penetration even without ming is already a big risk.

Just some of the things you can get by having unprotected sex include:
- HIV
- Genital herpes
- Syphilis
- Hepatitis B & Hepatits C
- Chlamydia
- Gonorrhea
- HPV (which can cause anal and throat cancer)

Your question about the safety of letting someone inside of you reveals you have apparently not informed yourself about safer sex and the health risks of sexual intercourse yet.
PrEP teatment, as mentioned by kwhotboi does not protect you from anything but HIV.

Please inform yourself further, for example at the website of the CDC: http://anon.projectarchive.net/?http://www.cdc.gov/msmhealth/STD.htm

 

[habalushy]

have fun, be safe. warm up, dont just dive right in. id recommend a condom for cleanliness.