Gay or Not?

[quetzlqatl]

Hi, new to forum. Just would like other peoples opinion.
Am I gay for loving ladyboys?
I have spent a lot of time with Thai ladyboys recently, and truely love one in particular. Does this make me gay or just bi-sexual?
Thanks

 

[fkboy1]

Males who love/have sex exclusively with other males (effeminate or otherwise)......are labeled 'Gay'/'Homosexual'.

Males/Females who love/have sex with both, males and females (individually or in a group)....are labeled 'Bi-sexual'.

Choose your label accordingly. That is all there is to it!

 

[gb2000ie]

Males who love/have sex exclusively with other males (effeminate or otherwise)......are labeled 'Gay'/'Homosexual'.

Males/Females who love/have sex with both, males and females (individually or in a group)....are labeled 'Bi-sexual'.

Choose your label accordingly. That is all there is to it!

Or - bugger the labels and just have fun

B.

 

[BadMan125]

I'd go with bi. I love ladyboys too.

 

[fkboy1]

Or - bugger the labels and just have fun

B.

Hahaha.......absolutely!!! I don't fancy labels myself!! :thumbs up:

 

[lhardwick69]

I hate labels myself as well when some ask me if I am a top or bottom I say versatile but with the gay str8 bi thing--society has to label us as something so if you are a guy and youlike girls and guys you are bisexual if you like ladyboys but don't like girls you are gay--if the person has a dick and you love it you are gay-- simple as that

 

[kicker1121]

I live my life happily as a straight married man, but I find men much more attractive and sexually exciting. I'm really put off by anything anal, whether it is gay or straight.

 

[fkboy1]

I live my life happily as a straight married man, but I find men much more attractive and sexually exciting. I'm really put off by anything anal, whether it is gay or straight.

I am no one to judge anyone for the lifestyles that they live, but personally, I would never marry a girl, knowing fully well that I like guys too!! If I do, I would be lying not only to the person who would be my spouse, but I would also be lying to myself, and my conscience does not allow me to do that.

I do understand that in many cirstances, it is the peer/societal/familial pressure, self-denial or the fear of ostracization that one feels the need to get married. But in our haste to save ourselves from those situations, we forget, that by doing what 'others' want us to do or expect us to do, i.e. marry, we are ruining the life of another innocent being!!

As for living 'happily as a straight married man', if a man likes men and has sex with them, then he is definitely not straight!! And what if the spouse of that man found out someday?? Just imagine the hurt, grief and anger that his spouse and his family would feel........the betrayal from someone who they implicitly trusted!!!

One again, am not judging anyone, just sharing my thoughts and views.

 

[ihno]

I like labels. :thumbs up: :thumbs up: You're gay, quetzlqatl. Or you should listen to the other and not care so much.

Great name btw. Makes me think of this:

 

[quetzlqatl]

Yeah screw it, gay or bi I don't care, all I know is I like ladyboys to the point I would marry one if the cirstances are right.

 

[down_the_street]

Technically, pansexual.

 

[linniejr2013]

Re: Gay or Not

In response to this topic, I would have to agree with fkboy1. I tried living the straight life, but I had to admit to myself and the female that I was with, that my attraction to men is real. We went our separate ways, she was mad with me for a while, but the fact that we share a child, has made us civil toward one another.