Help(HIV related)

[andy03]

its my first time hiring a str8 escort last week and im getting paranoid that he might have transmitted an HIV to me. This situation really bothers me, I fingered him and at first poke he already screamed in pain so i let him control my finger until it gets inside his anus my middle finger stayed inside going up and down for about 10 minute or less after that he wont let me finger him anymore so i started worshiping his body some kissing here and there... after his service i took a shower and i discovered i have a cut on my middle finger, i did not know where and when i got it BUT IF EVER i already have it and it bleed when i was fingering him and inside of his anus theres a little bleeding as well(im considering in my fist poke in his anus he got a cut because of my nail) am i at risk of getting HIV from that guy?(lets assume he is HIV positive)

 

[RefixnarcisM]

Why not getting a test for HIV? Although some say it's not accurate or so, it's better than keep worrying and having a bad thoughts.

 

[andy03]

Why not getting a test for HIV? Although some say it's not accurate or so, it's better than keep worrying and having a bad thoughts.

i already did but thats only after 4 days it happened.. i figured i need to wait 3 months to be sure im negative now im getting paranoid..

 

[Otage]

i already did but thats only after 4 days it happened.. i figured i need to wait 3 months to be sure im negative now im getting paranoid..

The only way to be sure is to take the test again after three months. Up in till, don't worry. I mean it's good you are taking this seriously, and seem like a causious guy, which is good

But up untill then, It's quite unlikely that you got effected. He brolly hasn't got AIDS, I think he was quite new to this escort thing if finger up his bum was that much. Even though he had AIDS, it's still not certain that you got affected. The wound on your finger could have came after it had been removed from the gentlemans bum? And even if you had the wound while in, it still isn't 100% sure it got contacted with stuff carrying the HIV.

But take new test after three months, untill then try to chill. You can't know for sure before. Stressing and worrying won't help at all. Try to live in the moment, don't stress the future if you can't at your certain position affect it at all.

 

[andy03]

The only way to be sure is to take the test again after three months. Up in till, don't worry. I mean it's good you are taking this seriously, and seem like a causious guy, which is good

But up untill then, It's quite unlikely that you got effected. He brolly hasn't got AIDS, I think he was quite new to this escort thing if finger up his bum was that much. Even though he had AIDS, it's still not certain that you got affected. The wound on your finger could have came after it had been removed from the gentlemans bum? And even if you had the wound while in, it still isn't 100% sure it got contacted with stuff carrying the HIV.

But take new test after three months, untill then try to chill. You can't know for sure before. Stressing and worrying won't help at all. Try to live in the moment, don't stress the future if you can't at your certain position affect it at all.

im trying not be worried, i made this thread to gather more information... im really cautious about HIV, i even suck his dick for about 2 minutes only(not consecutively) and i always remind him not to in my mouth. Unfortunately for me there something happened that i did not thought it might occur...

im thinking he is positive because i was asking him if he got some evidence to prove he is negative but he gives excuses that i dont think its true but im giving him the benefit of the doubt because its true that he does let his customers fucked him thats why i got surprised he agreed to be fingered.

 

[Frenchgerman]

why not a treatment after possible exposure ? surely they still exist ...

For that, go to the nearest treatment center, explain what happened. If they think you are at risk, they will prescribe a 1 month treatment ...
if they don't want to prescribe the treatment, insist !

It's not cool to have to do this and I don't where you are from so accessibility of treatment is also the question. Furthermore, to have explain what happened can be humiliating ...
But all this is nothing compared to an eventual HIV-contamination ...


I know what it means ... it happened to me ... but I was lucky ... after the treatment still no HIV ...

 

[Shelter]

why not a treatment after possible exposure ? surely they still exist ...

For that, go to the nearest treatment center, explain what happened. If they think you are at risk, they will prescribe a 1 month treatment ...
if they don't want to prescribe the treatment, insist !

It's not cool to have to do this and I don't where you are from so accessibility of treatment is also the question. Furthermore, to have explain what happened can be humiliating ...
But all this is nothing compared to an eventual HIV-contamination ...


I know what it means ... it happened to me ... but I was lucky ... after the treatment still no HIV ...

This will be a very good and serious suggestion Andy and you should follow at once this advice. Better prevent than to be left standing.

 

[ralph145b]

Hi,

HIV does not live in feces. If both you and he were bleeding, then a test is warranted for both of you. Hope this helps.

 

[gb2000ie]

From what you describe, the risk is non-zero. But, there are lots of "IFs" in there. IF he was pos, IF he had a cut, IF your finger was cut before. It sounds kinda unlikely to me, but of course I'm not a doctor.

Seems VERY simple to me - you're worried, get a full STD screening. Wait 3 months (AIDS can take that long to show up in tests), get a follow-up screening.

B.

 

[Frenchgerman]

sorry guys, but he is worried and there is the possibility ... even with 'ifs' but you know the saying ...


so andy if you have a treatment center near you ... go there ! It's better this way then waiting three months and be told then that you could have benefitted from the post-exposure treatment ...

 

[andy03]

i already visited 2 doctors already.. one was last week were i had hiv/std/hepa test and it was all negative.. then last monday i went to another doctor and he did a urinalysis and blood test to me, all is normal according to him???? I have a mucus in my throat for a week now and it wont go away, i got this after 3 hours with that str8 escort, is this considered as flu like symptoms? .. i also feel pain in a certain part of my lower sideleft abdomen..

 

[W!nston]

I had an appointment with my heart doctor today. It was a follow up from a month ago when I went to him complaining of chest pain. He did his tests and told me what he thought. He said he thought the chest pain wasn't my heart but arthritis in my ribs. He told me to take a new medicine he gave me and come back in a month. After he calmed my fear of having another heart attack by suggesting it was simply arthritis I felt better that very day. I took the new pills for a few days but they caused some serious indigestion so I stopped and went back to ibuprofen. Over the past month whenever I felt chest pain I didn't worry because I knew he was right. It was arthritis. I went to see him today and he told me I was fine but he would schedule another stress test if I was still unsure. I declined the test. I know he was right. He told me psychology plays a big part in medicine. Sometimes our fear of the unknown will fool us into a panic when the simplest answer is usually the right answer.

I said all that to tell you not to psych yourself out and create stress that will ultimately cause you to become sick in a very real way.

Relax. Don't obsess about this issue. Trust the doctors and test results. You are not infected. It is just fear of the unknown.



btw - if that is a selfie in your signature you are very beautiful... i just thought i would tell you so

 

[andy03]

I had an appointment with my heart doctor today. It was a follow up from a month ago when I went to him complaining of chest pain. He did his tests and told me what he thought. He said he thought the chest pain wasn't my heart but arthritis in my ribs. He told me to take a new medicine he gave me and come back in a month. After he calmed my fear of having another heart attack by suggesting it was simply arthritis I felt better that very day. I took the new pills for a few days but they caused some serious indigestion so I stopped and went back to ibuprofen. Over the past month whenever I felt chest pain I didn't worry because I knew he was right. It was arthritis. I went to see him today and he told me I was fine but he would schedule another stress test if I was still unsure. I declined the test. I know he was right. He told me psychology plays a big part in medicine. Sometimes our fear of the unknown will fool us into a panic when the simplest answer is usually the right answer.

I said all that to tell you not to psych yourself out and create stress that will ultimately cause you to become sick in a very real way.

Relax. Don't obsess about this issue. Trust the doctors and test results. You are not infected. It is just fear of the unknown.



btw - if that is a selfie in your signature you are very beautiful... i just thought i would tell you so

ahh thanks.. i just wanna know more about it because it happened unexpectedly, i wasn't prepared for it. I know enough about HIV before i met up with that dude but regarding having a cut on my finger its something i did not saw coming until it was over.

it wasn't me on my sig

thanks everyone for your advices..

Can I still do oral sex even if i have mucus in my throat, i have it since last week?? is it considered as flu or sore throat??

 

[andy03]

they say dont do oral sex if you have an open would in your mouth or sore throat because HIV disease may enter how about in my case that i have a mucus/phlegm in my throat? will it be dangerous also?

the mucus/phlegm in my throat are clear btw not yellowish..

im trying to search for an answer to this question but i cant find any.

 

[gb2000ie]

i already visited 2 doctors already.. one was last week were i had hiv/std/hepa test and it was all negative.. then last monday i went to another doctor and he did a urinalysis and blood test to me, all is normal according to him???? I have a mucus in my throat for a week now and it wont go away, i got this after 3 hours with that str8 escort, is this considered as flu like symptoms? .. i also feel pain in a certain part of my lower sideleft abdomen..

Again - I'm not a doctor, but to me, it sounds like you are working yourself up into a panic. Your post really reads like hypochondria to me. Relax! You've had the tests, they show you are healthy. Wait three months, do a followup, and then you'll be sure.

And no - what you describe is not 'flu-like symptoms' - headache, fever, store throat, aching muscles, that feeling that you can't get out of bed, all that is 'flu-like symptoms'. When you have something like the flu, you don't need to ask anyone if you have it or not, you'll know!

B.

 

[W!nston]

its my first time hiring a str8 escort...

May I ask an obvious question? How did you find this 'str8 escort'? Grndr or some other app? Craig's List or some other online service? Or the old fashioned way... face to face in the real world?

The reason I ask is I have a vivid imagination and I was imagining you walking past a row of hustlers in a cruising spot like an arcade/bookstore, a bar or a park. That is how it was done in my hay day, lol.

If you don't want to answer I'll understand. I just thought I'd flesh out my fantasy with a few more details

 

[andy03]

May I ask an obvious question? How did you find this 'str8 escort'? Grndr or some other app? Craig's List or some other online service? Or the old fashioned way... face to face in the real world?

The reason I ask is I have a vivid imagination and I was imagining you walking past a row of hustlers in a cruising spot like an arcade/bookstore, a bar or a park. That is how it was done in my hay day, lol.

If you don't want to answer I'll understand. I just thought I'd flesh out my fantasy with a few more details

actually it was done in a more modernized way.. through net, there are sites where they show different guys that are available for hire as a masseur/escort I got him here The one who is named Chris.

 

[andy03]

i have diarrhea since yesterday after 1 week and 4 days with that escort.

 

[W!nston]

Did he show signs of having diarrhea? Did you feel any feces in his hole when you put your finger in there? Did your finger come out clean or was there any formed or loose stool or liguid on it? Other than the cut on the finger you used to penetrate his butt hole was there any other exchange of body fluids like saliva, urine or semen? If not then I would doubt there is any connection between that encounter and this episode of digestive upset.

I think your diarrhea is most likely caused by something you ate or a medication you might be taking. I know whenever I take an anti-biotic for a few days quite often I have a bout of diarrhea. It is a pretty common side effect of many medicines.

I'm just sayin' don't jump to an unlikely conclusion and try not to focus on that encounter too much. It's good to be prudent and be examined by a doctor but then try to put it in perspective and go back to your normal routine.

Sniffit

 

[andy03]

Did he show signs of having diarrhea? Did you feel any feces in his hole when you put your finger in there? Did your finger come out clean or was there any formed or loose stool or liguid on it? Other than the cut on the finger you used to penetrate his butt hole was there any other exchange of body fluids like saliva, urine or semen? If not then I would doubt there is any connection between that encounter and this episode of digestive upset.

I think your diarrhea is most likely caused by something you ate or a medication you might be taking. I know whenever I take an anti-biotic for a few days quite often I have a bout of diarrhea. It is a pretty common side effect of many medicines.

I'm just sayin' don't jump to an unlikely conclusion and try not to focus on that encounter too much. It's good to be prudent and be examined by a doctor but then try to put it in perspective and go back to your normal routine.

Sniffit

I did not feel any feces when my finger was in there but I remmbered after I take out my finger and I looked at it there was a a little stool on my finger but then we are talking and I forget about it so I did not know where it went? theres possibility I swallowed coz I touch his dick and nipples and I licked and sucked em.. we kissed but not torridly he sticked the tip of his tongue on my lips but im not opening my lips... I only touched his dickhead with some on it I just cant remember if I used the finger that got a cut..

no fucking happened. When ever I sucked his cock I always checked if theres pre and there is none, sucked him for about 3 times in a total time of maybe 3 minutes or less.