Hmmm...I wonder

[burnshitup]

This has probobly been talked about already but I wanna know:

Do gay men embrace bi-sexuality or do they feel that we are confused?

I have heard it said that bi-sexuals can't be trusted, because they refuse to take a side between gay or straight. Thus they are wishy washy....

I have also heard that there is no such thing as being bi-sexual. Either u r gay or straight. A friend told me once that If you have ever THOUGHT about having sex with another man, You are gay. But I think thats a bunch of crap...

Basically, I don't think I could choose between a good hard dick or a tight wet cunt (girl cunt). When I see a hot couple(man and woman) I look at em' both. I don't like labels, I want to be able to fuck who I choose. I like sex, no matter who it's with, just as long as it feels good and I in the end....

So what say u fellas...(and ladies)

 

[smallsleepyrascalcat]

There's a German saying: Bissl Bi schadet nie (a bit bi never hurts)

I don't have a problem with bisexual men. They have an advantage, they are attracted (theoreticaly) by 100% of mankind

 

[slimjim]

I have the same attitude to bi's as anyone else... the all embracing intolerance free attitude.

 

[burnshitup]

I have the same attitude to bi's as anyone else... the all embracing intolerance free attitude.

How true..However I've noticed that a lot of Gay and Lesbians has started to persecute bisexuals. I think it's because they look at the pain that they have endured battling their sexuality, and see none of their struggle in Bi-sexuals. I believe that you are born what you are, and society conditions us to act a certain way. So why can't you love both men and women? especially if thats who you are.

 

[glamfunk84]

I don't like it when anyone's phobic to somebody.

I love anyone who's straight, gay, bisexual, lesbian or transgender, we need to cut that biased shit out. It's not cool. We just need to learn to understand each other rather than ridicule each other.

 

[smallsleepyrascalcat]

I don't like it when anyone's phobic to somebody.

I love anyone who's gay, bisexual, lesbian or transgender, we need to cut that biased shit out. It's not cool. We just need to learn to understand each other rather than ridicule each other.

Jamaal?

You forgot the straight ones ^^

 

[glamfunk84]

^^ Yeah straight people too oops lol sorry about that.

 

[XMan101]

I think there are some who don't understand it necessarily. I'm sure the vast majority do at some time feel something towards the less dominant side of their sexuality, but for the main most will regard themselves as one thing or the other. Even some "Bisexuals" (as mentioned before I hate labels but there you go) tend to have a preference but some of us are straight down the middle as to what can turn us on.

I look at people, not what sex they are. A hot girl can turn me on as much as a hot guy In any relationship my eyes don't wander, I don't suddenly feel I'm missing anything, I'm involved with that particular person, simple as that

 

[goejavin]

How true..However I've noticed that a lot of Gay and Lesbians has started to persecute bisexuals. I think it's because they look at the pain that they have endured battling their sexuality, and see none of their struggle in Bi-sexuals. I believe that you are born what you are, and society conditions us to act a certain way. So why can't you love both men and women? especially if thats who you are.

I find it utterly dispicable that anyone would feel so worthy to judge anyone else. But being we live in a world that judges everything, as a gay man, my feeling is that the more the merrier, and probably if I had my way, which my makeup (no I dont mean cosmetics) won't allow me to be, I'd be bisexual too. So, go crazy I say.

I only quote you Burn cause I cant imagine a gay person persecuting bisexuals. It may be...I havent really hung out in the gay world for a while, but dam, if thats the case, then things are worse than I thought. Fuck struggle, fuck pain, its about acceptance and if gay people are judging bisexuals, then god help us.

 

[burnshitup]

I find it utterly dispicable that anyone would feel so worthy to judge anyone else. But being we live in a world that judges everything, as a gay man, my feeling is that the more the merrier, and probably if I had my way, which my makeup (no I dont mean cosmetics) won't allow me to be, I'd be bisexual too. So, go crazy I say.

I only quote you Burn cause I cant imagine a gay person persecuting bisexuals. It may be...I havent really hung out in the gay world for a while, but dam, if thats the case, then things are worse than I thought. Fuck struggle, fuck pain, its about acceptance and if gay people are judging bisexuals, then god help us.

No, I'm serious. I was on another site and I ran into alot of that. A few guys were in the chat saying that we as bisexuals are "confused" and I was like isn't that what straight people say about you? Imbalanced, and all that shit? Strange world we're in. I guess that since homosexuality is a little more breathable these days, they finally feel that they have made it, and can now thumb their nose at folks. Idk...it's crazy

 

[burnshitup]

I don't like it when anyone's phobic to somebody.

I love anyone who's straight, gay, bisexual, lesbian or transgender, we need to cut that biased shit out. It's not cool. We just need to learn to understand each other rather than ridicule each other.

I agree totally. I have so many rascist ass friends who are UNDOUBTEBLY homophobic. I always tell them I was raised to see any color in people, but to try and see their hearts. That's all I'm concerned with, and I'm trying to get my fellow brothers to understand that. At the end of the day( and I really hate that phrase) our blood is all red.

 

[XMan101]

I've encountered a certain prejudice over the years against bisexuality by gay guys. A lot can be very condemning towards women too, and to think that "one of their own" so to speak , could possibly fancy a girl - hell it's the ultimate sin !! Total crap of course. There are a lot of double standards in all walks of life unfortunately.

I've seen it on other forums too, which is why this one is so different. A total attitude free zone

 

[burnshitup]

I've encountered a certain prejudice over the years against bisexuality by gay guys. A lot can be very condemning towards women too, and to think that "one of their own" so to speak , could possibly fancy a girl - hell it's the ultimate sin !! Total crap of course. There are a lot of double standards in all walks of life unfortunately.

I've seen it on other forums too, which is why this one is so different. A total attitude free zone

Yep Xman..thats why I like it in here...it is refreshing. It's not stuffy with alot of rules and such, and there are some really nice people from all walks of life. I wish the whole world was like Gay Heaven...hey thats a thought, let's make the world gay or bi..lol

 

[brmstn69]

I have to go with Kinsey on this...
I don't think that anyone is completely gay or straight, I think everyone is to some extent bisexual, even if they lean 99% one way or the other, there is still that 1% varible...

 

[glamfunk84]

The one thing I don't get is people think we choose our sexuality, that's a complicated process. I just think we just choose to be with who we're with. Your sexuality is not a choice, you can choose who your love is gonna be with. Sexuality be damned. At the end of the day we're all human and we should just love and accept whoever we are. It'll be great if we were all accepting and the fact that biased discrimination occurs is sad.

 

[Thor]

This has probobly been talked about already but I wanna know:

Do gay men embrace bi-sexuality or do they feel that we are confused?

I have heard it said that bi-sexuals can't be trusted, because they refuse to take a side between gay or straight. Thus they are wishy washy....

I have also heard that there is no such thing as being bi-sexual. Either u r gay or straight. A friend told me once that If you have ever THOUGHT about having sex with another man, You are gay. But I think thats a bunch of crap...

Basically, I don't think I could choose between a good hard dick or a tight wet cunt (girl cunt). When I see a hot couple(man and woman) I look at em' both. I don't like labels, I want to be able to fuck who I choose. I like sex, no matter who it's with, just as long as it feels good and I in the end....

So what say u fellas...(and ladies)

unfortunately we all make are own choices based on how we were raised and what we were told and hold true, so are we ever free to feel what we want?

iv allways known i was gay...i just loved dicks