How did this happen?!

[Z.C.]

Hey everone! Another chapter of my misadventures in high school... yay.
For awhile now there have been these two guys who hang out in the same group as I do from time to time. both are openly "bi" one you can totally tell right away when you see him walking (let's call him One, clever yeah I know). The other one is a chorus glee kid (let's call him Two) who says he is bi but everyone can tell that's a lie and he's lying to himself. Anyway, I don't really get along with these two at all. They're somewhat hostile towards me, mocking me, making rude comments you know etc... I never really did anything to them cause we never talk they're just how you say "catty" to me. The other day One is sitting across from me and he and his friend (who's my friend too) fool around jokingly cuz the friends straight. Then he actually points out the kids who he says "want him" he points too our friend, Two, and then ME! I was like a deer in the damn headlights after that. For one thing me and him don't hangout whatsoever, aren't friends, never talked for more than one minute. How the hell did he know?! And he blurted "I KNOW YOU'RE BI SO DON'T GO LYING TO ME!" out loud in front everyone I know who I was planning to never come out to any of them. It was an awkward silence after that. The only person who I could even think of who told him is my friend who was his girlfriend for a while who knew since freshmen year. But I know she wouldn't go starting shit like that, me and her are like siblings. I did tell some friends in freshmen year I was bi, perhaps word spread because they're fake?
My question is, how did he find out? Should I just guess he has a highly sensitive gay-day, or someone who I was really close too told him? Or is there something else I'm overlooking?
And sorry for the reeeeaaaaally long post, I just wanted to explain in exact detail how this mess somehow found it's way to me.

 

[PBNJ]

Well yes... someone either told him, or he sensed it... possibly because he's attracted to you. Maybe he ASKED someone if they knew whether you were bi or not? Doesn't really matter how he found out, if you think about it... but the fact that he wanted to know

 

[Z.C.]

Well yes... someone either told him, or he sensed it... possibly because he's attracted to you. Maybe he ASKED someone if they knew whether you were bi or not? Doesn't really matter how he found out, if you think about it... but the fact that he wanted to know

That'd be great if it was someone I'm attracted too but, no, it'll never happen for him lol He's a douche, and he treats his girlfriend like shit. And he's not my type, twink, I'm into muscles! :heart:

 

[PBNJ]

You never know, maybe someone this guy knows is asking him about you

 

[Daedalus]

It all sounds like speculation, hearsay and Chinese whispers to me... which of course can become upsetting. Don't let it get to you! You might consider trying to shrug it off or make light of it all -laugh it off in other words. If you feel yourself getting worried or feel pressured then maybe pop in to see a guidance counselor or other reliable, confidant -if that's an available option and one you're comfortable with.