How Do You Get Over Someone From Craigslist?

[TragicWaltz]

Yesterday morning, I posted an ad on Craigslist looking for sex (because I woke up horny). I posted on my ad that it will be a one time NSA type of thing... and I got quite a lot of response.... but most of 'em didn't send pics, therefore, I didn't reply to them.
A guy, however, did send a pic of himself. Hey wasn't all that good looking (or so I thought) but he is the only one who sent me a face pic and also my age! (20y/o)

So we chatted and he gave me his number and address. He lives exactly two cities away from me.
When I drove to his city, I got lost for an hour and thirty minutes. I couldn't find his place until I received a text from him saying, "So I guess you're not coming?"
I replied, "Yes I am, but I'm lost. Right now I'm on (street name). Could you give me directions from here?"
He did... and I finally found his house! lol...
When I saw him from afar, he looks a little different from his picture. But when I got up close to him, he's quite attractive; WAY better looking than in his picture! Not to mention, he's quite familiar looking... I think I've seen him before.. somewhere...

Anyway, we went into his place and he asked me if I wanted anything to drink. He opened his fridge and there's a whole bunch of drinks, but I choose water. He was so nice and polite.. lol
We sat down and chatted for a bit. I can't help but notice how cute he is!
When I asked him about his job, he wouldn't tell me. He started blushing and said that he doesn't want to be seen by his friends or people he knows, at his job. I jokingly asked if he was a Go-go Dancer, Stripper, or Porn Star lol... And He said, "No." *laughing*
After a while, he finally told me that he works at Walmart! My local Walmart; the Walmart in my city!!
That's when it finally hit me why looks so familiar! It was there, at Walmart, that I saw him! He was the cashier in the gardening section for me, a couple of times! :rofl: I never thought much of him, or even the possibility of him being gay, except for how cute he is. :duh:

We later went into his room he stripped down first. I don't know why but I became so shy and nervous. I began shaking... I mean, this is NOT my first time having sex with someone... but he makes me nervous. I guess it's because he's so cute and desirable. We began kissing, feeling each other.. and just went straight to fcuking. We skipped oral because he had to go to work soon It was my fault for getting lost and wasting an 1hr and thirty of the time we could've spent together.
Anyway, he's a good top lol.. I like him a lot. I couldn't stop thinking about him while driving home, knowing that I'll probably never see him again. But he did say that I could always say "hi" to him if I ever see him at Walmart lol...
I wonder what he thinks of me. Perhaps nothing much.. And I'm too afraid to ask him or confess my attraction to himX_X

Have this ever happened to you before?
Falling love with someone whom you only met for a one time thing. I never thought it'd happen to me.X(
How long did it take for you to get over it?

 

[topdog]

It's amazing, isn't it? An hour before, you can't imagine feeling that way about someone - and then BAM - you are knocked off-balance and feel like you just can't go back to the life you had been living before. "Twitterpated", as Thumper tells Bambi in the Disney movie.

You know, you have nothing to lose by calling or e-mailing him and telling him how much you enjoyed the morning and invite him to give you a call if he's feeling randy, or just wants to take a break at work and go for coffee.

If he felt the spark, he will likely take you up on the offer. If he didn't - well, you gave it a shot. Sometimes Cupid only manages to get off one arrow. That's the part of love that sucks (and not in the good way).

On the positive side, you had a good time, and your heart will heal quickly. It's not like you were a couple, and you broke up. It't not grief. Still, it's the loss of what could have been, which can be deeply felt.

 

[jw4833]

Well, you know, at first I wasn't going to reply to this, but after I read the last comment, I felt compelled to give my analogy to the other side of the coin so to speak, Personally, I think you may have taken things too far because initially in your Craiglist ad, you had mentioned that you were looking for a one time only experience if I'm correct and therefore, in my opinion, this is why you were getting the responses that you did because of this specific stipulation. Therefore, that guy reacted on the notion that you were looking for the same thing he was and he can go back to his silhouette "life" without leaving any traces of the incident behind because of your specifics that you've mentioned in your ad. Also, from your post, this is the sentence that stuck out to me, "But he did say that I could always say "hi" to him if I ever see him at Walmart lol..." if someone had said that to me, I would take that as a message that this will not happen again, and we can be cordial to one another if our paths happen to cross each other. With that being said, take the time spent with him for what its worth and let it be...because from what I've read from your post that if you chose to pursue it, you're asking for trouble...just my opinion.