How easy are you?

[lieh058]

How easy is it to get you into bed? How difficult is it for you to resist a move?

When I was in my teens and early twenties I was quite easy. If a guy made advances towards me (or whipped out his cock) I couldn't really resist getting on my knees and giving him a blowjob. Even if I didn't really found the guy attractive.

Part of me felt guilty during the act, the other part was extremely horny.

 

[netdick]

Im still easy!

 

[gb2000ie]

How easy I am depends on context I guess.

I don't do one-night-stands - period.

But, I also think that sex is a very important part of a relationship, and I don't hold with this nonsense of saving sex for after marriage or anything like that.

So - if we're dating, you'll find me very easy to get into bed, if we're not, very very hard indeed.

Mind you - that's all hypothetical now - myself and my hubby have been together for well over 10 years now, so if you're not him, you're not gonna get me in your bed

B.

 

[gorgik9]

As long as I'm not in some kind of deeper emotional relationship, I've always been very easy. The only exception is if you're not reasonably behaved or sending out violent vibes, but otherwise I'll gladly suck your juicy pecker!

 

[Shelter]

How easy I am depends on context I guess.

I don't do one-night-stands - period.

But, I also think that sex is a very important part of a relationship, and I don't hold with this nonsense of saving sex for after marriage or anything like that.

So - if we're dating, you'll find me very easy to get into bed, if we're not, very very hard indeed.

Mind you - that's all hypothetical now - myself and my hubby have been together for well over 10 years now, so if you're not him, you're not gonna get me in your bed

B.

GB I'm totally with you.
I'm living as well in a very longterm relationship and we are living monogamous. Some of you may laugh now about that - perhaps, I don't know!? So and from this reason no other one than my love will get me into the bed - but that VERY easy! He only must look on me with this special look in his eyes and at once my shirt is off and my trousers down and I'm in the bed on my back, legs up and ..... ok, let's start! :thumbs up:

 

[trencherman]

I was picky, dense and easily turned off. Although I could not tell you whatever it was I was looking for, I only went with certain individuals I really liked both for sex or for friendship. Could not read the strongest pickup signals either and only realized in retrospect that someone was hitting on me. Flamboyance and lack of self-control can turn me off off people even in a minute.

 

[brmstn69]

I'm a total slut...

 

[Dendood]

That's a really good question. And very relative.

In the heyday of the eighties, before illness was on anyone's mind, 'easy' meant almost astronomical numbers. Guys would do hundreds, thousands of encounters. That was also a reflection of their natural, sexual attractiveness. -Not entirely based on 'looks.'
Life force, spirit, play a big part in being attractive. I was pretty willing and easy back then. But never to the levels of 'easy' guys.

I fell into an unusual (I think) and rare middle. Most men fall into one of two camps. They require a relationship to have sex, or they are interested in playing the field and enjoying one night stands. I didn't, I don't fit either of those categories. I don't feel confined to having sex in a relationship, but I don't crave one night stands. I like having sex with friends. Friendship provides enough of a bond that compliments my sex drive.

But most of my friends won't hit on friends. It's like that old straight line about being stuck with a 'friendship' label. -Guys into one night stands rarely like to crap where they eat. So as much as they may like hooking up, they are leery of hooking up with friends.

I haven't met a lot of guys who think the way I think. So even though I'm easy, I'm not easily matched. Which I imagine makes me not easy.

But if I know you and you aim your cock in my direction, I'm a slut.

 

[wardell]

In my fantasies I'm easy but in real life I don't know no one as ever made a move on me.

 

[tjames97]

If I'm attracted to the person I'd imagine id be pretty easy, but if I'm not I doubt id be easy at all. Can't speak from experience though.

 

[ERICOOL85]

depends on how attracted and horny i am

 

[coscar]

My inner self is a complete and utter slut!
But me, myself and I, can't get it up unless
I know and like the person.
Am now working towards my "Next Life"

 

[lhardwick69]

I love sex age race or whatever its all good all cocks big or small need attention hehehe

 

[lovetosuckcock]

I'm so easy that my legs spread like soft butter whenever there is even the remotest prospect of getting fucked.

 

[jw4833]

Sorry ....but I am not easy to get in bed....I am very picky and selective and one thing I've learned over the years especially in the bar environment is that everything that looks good doesn't mean its good for you. I've had two recent incidents where one guy who is incredibly handsome but he is also very arrogant to say the least and he knows he is hot. He also feels that because a lot of guys want to sleep with him that if he shows you any kind of interest that you should jump at the opportunity to sleep with him. However, when he approached me...he made it very clear that he wanted to have sex and what I could expect sex with him to be like. I declined his offer which insulted him to no end that he went through drastic measures to get me to give in to his demands. Nonetheless...it appears that my behavior also intimidated him to no end especially after he came to the conclusion that something was wrong with me for not wanting him. Once he had a conversation with me which he came to the conclusion that I was extremely intelligent and not a pushover. Then there is another guy whom I met when I was 19 years old through a mutual friend. At that time...this guy and I did not develop a solid friendship but were very cordial and nice to each other whenever our paths crossed. Over the years whenever I ran into him...it was very clear that he was bisexual because he would have a woman on his arm in public and one lady in particular whom I've known had told me that they were a couple in love at one time. It had been years since I've seen or heard from this guy and recently, I ran into him. He had mentioned that he has been married for a little over 20 years. Surprisingly to me...I have heard stories that he would go on these solo vacations in order to take care of his male needs and then go back to his married life. He had mentioned that he wanted to establish a friendship with me because he enjoyed my company which I had no problem with.

However, over the past recent weeks...I began to discover some things about him that are not pleasant to say the least. One thing is that when I met him for lunch a week ago...He showered me with all of these gifts which I politely declined because my instincts had immediately kicked in to alert me that there is a hidden agenda to his kindness that I also felt was way too soon to be doing and also unnecessary since we were establishing a friendship. My biggest issue/problem with this guy was that for him to take in consideration that I would be interested in him without him finding out if I was and that he is a MARRIED MAN.....!!!!! In conclusion...he revealed that he liked me a lot and had dreams about having sex with me all the time....needless to say...he soon found out that I was not an easy lay and because of his annoying persistence to keep calling me several times a day constantly and to make attempts to take the conversation to the sexual level...I began to block his calls.

 

[stephenhaines]

The only way to answer this question is by being honest about my age. I'm 61.

I was 18 in 1972, which meant I had a worry-free ten years to explore my sexuality, without concern of catching anything that a penicillin shot or two (or that gross crabs medicine) wouldn't fix. The 'easiest' I got was sex on the first night if he was irresistibly handsome and seductive, but not because I wasn't hoping for more. That adds up to a modest roster of one night stands, and lost weekends at my loosest.

One thing I never did, which I could have in those pre-AIDS times, was visit a bathhouse. I've always had a shrewd awareness of what my conscience would and wouldn't let me off the hook about later. And the idea of having sex with a stranger without even exchanging one another's names was a step too far. (Thus, truck stop encounters weren't for me either.) I've never had much success divorcing the longing for intimacy from the mechanics of sex itself, and only when I (rarely) went against that instinct did I wind up with regret or embarrassment.

There are few things more subjective than a given person's 'moral center,' and so what may seem too easy and whorish for me, might look to you like I'm tightly corseted and retrograde priggish.

 

[Shelter]

The only way to answer this question is by being honest about my age. I'm 61.

I was 18 in 1972, which meant I had a worry-free ten years to explore my sexuality, without concern of catching anything that a penicillin shot or two (or that gross crabs medicine) wouldn't fix. The 'easiest' I got was sex on the first night if he was irresistibly handsome and seductive, but not because I wasn't hoping for more. That adds up to a modest roster of one night stands, and lost weekends at my loosest.

One thing I never did, which I could have in those pre-AIDS times, was visit a bathhouse. I've always had a shrewd awareness of what my conscience would and wouldn't let me off the hook about later. And the idea of having sex with a stranger without even exchanging one another's names was a step too far. (Thus, truck stop encounters weren't for me either.) I've never had much success divorcing the longing for intimacy from the mechanics of sex itself, and only when I (rarely) went against that instinct did I wind up with regret or embarrassment.

There are few things more subjective than a given person's 'moral center,' and so what may seem too easy and whorish for me, might look to you like I'm tightly corseted and retrograde priggish.

Hi Sir - congratulation for this truly and honest post. You are totally right with your opinion.

 

[Otage]

My rule has been, that never give on first dates. But the broblem is, that if I'm on that date, that means I'm attracted to the guy, and that means that I almost always fail to follow my rule... X_X Other times I'm just intentionally easy

BUT I would never cheat someone I'm with, nor do I have sex with someone who I know is dating, even though while I'm not really the one doing the cheating, but it's just something I wouldn't like done to myself either:no:

 

[Shelter]

My rule has been, that never give on first dates. But the broblem is, that if I'm on that date, that means I'm attracted to the guy, and that means that I almost always fail to follow my rule... X_X Other times I'm just intentionally easy

BUT I would never cheat someone I'm with, nor do I have sex with someone who I know is dating, even though while I'm not really the one doing the cheating, but it's just something I wouldn't like done to myself either:no:

:agree::agree::agree::agree::agree:

 

[platinumblk2]

Love the honesty of this thread!

In my mind and my dreams, I am a filthy hoe giving it up to all the hot guys that wonder around in my head!

In reality, (and I know this sounds ridiculous and hypocritical) I am easy if I am a top and the guy is cute and has a cute ass but if I bottom, I ain't giving it up unless you and I are dating. Must have something to do with my ridiculous catholic upbringing but I can't just drop my trousers and give it up to all and sundry!

I am not trying to judge anyone as each to their own but if I meet a guy and he wants to "bang on my drums" it ain't happening without some form of commitment...lol