This was a thread I really wasn't going to open, because I new there would be some very sad stories. I feel terrible for those of you who are suffering so because of the mess the worlds gotten into. But there has also been so good stories, other helping out, etc.
I am very fortunate that I have a good job, and the company I work for is smaller and family owned. Our business is down, but we have managed very well. We are not in jeopardy, but we must be very careful.
In a way I really feel guilty. A neighbor across the street lost her job, neighbor next door lost her job, and here I am doing OK. The price of gas came way down, and I have a long commute, so I'm ahead of last year, plus heating oil prices are down so my heat bills won't be as bad as previous. I also took a vacation this year. First time in about 12-15 years!! I get vacation time, but have never gone and done anything. Really couldn't afford to. Flights and hotels fares were down so much, I took advantage of it.
2010 I am hoping to go again.
So why should I feel guilty? I don't know? Should I be stashing money away?
If I start to help one person, which one, how do I make the choice, I can't help everyone.
In a way I feel I give more than my fare share now. Over 50% of my salary goes to taxes. Mainly because I'm single, never married, no kids, inexpensive home with very little left on the mortgage, so no deductions. The 50% left barely covers food, gas, housing, utilities, car maintenance, etc.
OK, I think I'm rambling here. I guess what I mean to say is I've been doing good this year, and I feeling guilty about it!! I don't think I should, but I do.
Anyway, I wish all the best for you, and hope things turn around soon.