How often do you get the 'look?

[AleXXX UK]

When you're out and about going about your business, whether you're on your way to work or getting the groceries, how often do you get the look? You know what I mean. That look.

I know I definitely give it out when I see some hotness but how often do you get it yourself?

If you're still not clear, it's that, 'I want you to f*** me' look. Theyre kinda undressing you with their eyes. Its very momentary but its definitely there. Guys of all ages and backgrounds give it off. Married guys with kids in toe, old guys, young guys, you name it.

Also how do you respond? If I get a long locked stare, sometimes I give an 'i know what youre thinking and im flattered' look back. I think its usually subconscious and automatic, sometimes you look back and they look a little embarrassed and walk on.

 

[HettoreConti]

I pay no attention to looks, really. Anyone can look, but not many actually will have the testicular fortitude to approach you. If you really want to "do me", then come a little closer and say it. Don't just look at my way.

Alas, I don't think I've ever been pray to "that look". And even if I was, I live in complete oblivion to the world outside. I would never notice.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

I've given the look many times. That "I want you to bend me over the register." look.

 

[parucci]

Never.. how sad is that..

 

[tonka]

What's fun is when you're checking out a guy; you think you're being very subtle. Or even just doing it without thinking.

And he totally catches you doing it...and gives you a knowing smile; maybe a hello.

 

[Otage]

I don't stare at people really. Ofcourse sometimes your eyesight passes somenthing great. And I really don't recodnice the "look". For me a stare is a stare. People like to see other peoples faces. And ofcourse if your eyes match with someone good looking, both staring, I don't know is it just staring cause you're staring or somenthing. And the hotter the other guy, the more you like to start think that it's the "look", when it's actually "I'm bored", "wtf you looking at" or "nice day, just people watching here happily". And like HettoreConti said, what's the point when it usually doesn't lead to anywhere.

 

[lyonhunter]

Unless I'm with friends, I'm kinda in my own little world when I'm out. So, I tend to not notice people, unless they are doing something out of the ordinary.

 

[RefixnarcisM]

Never knew about it, I usually just averting my eyes boring-ly like Miranda in Devil wears Prada if I found out that some guy look at me and giving that thingy lol. If they want it, they should come and you know do some talk to get to know each other, there's a process to get it. I respect that way much than just give a look with silly or mischievous smile.

 

[bodle]

i always give someone a smile if they give me the look. its just the nice thing to do. but if i think the guy is cute ill go over and say hi.

 

[bafm]

When I'm out walking down the street I'm so absorbed in my own thoughts to even notice it.

How boring I am! :thumbs up:

 

[AleXXX UK]

It's mostly subconscious. It's a micro expression, that means its your body's reaction to something sudden, for that one moment you express you true thoughts before you go back to controlling yourself and being as you were. it's not necessarily the same as deliberatley eying someone up you you notice is hot. I get it from guys and women. I find myself giving it out as much as getting. If someone's hot I notice and they notice that I notice and usually I get a smile back. It's nice when you get a reaction like that.

 

[MaximumT]

When I'm out walking down the street I'm so absorbed in my own thoughts to even notice it.

Same here. The little attention I give to my surroundings is whether or not I have someone in front of me so I don't bump into them, and traffics. Other than that, I'm in my own little world. Which is why it's always so embarrassing when you pass someone you know and they say "Hi" and you're suddenly woken up from your own little world and is too late to respond because they've already passed you by. :duh:

 

[tonka]

If I can suggest....wake up, boys. As you walk down a city street (or a mall parking lot), life is all around you. Hot boys with hot smiles and hot asses. Interesting bugs. Fabulous cars. Wonderful buildings. Old ladies in pants suits. It's all right there for you. Free and now!

 

[fosse97]

I'm usually the one giving it...

 

[jw4833]

For me to get the "look" from guys or girls makes me blush instantly and this is something that I only started to notice due to some friends whom had brought it to my attention as well as my sister. For example, while in the grocery store the other day, a nice looking lady was checking me out and she spoke to me while I was walking in a direction that was near to where she was. What I found funny was that she saw this huge pack of polish kielbasa and she picked it up and slammed it down in her shopping basket and then looked at my crotch and smiled. However, it can become creepy to say the least. This became very apparent in the drug store today. I was standing in line and this guy was in front of me being serviced by the cashier. When she told him the amount of his purchases, while going in his wallet to get his money, he turned around and look at me. However, instead of going back to concentrating on getting his money, he just started staring at me like I was a piece of meat and the look he was giving me left nothing to the imagination that he was really checking me out in a sexual way. I got really nervous because the cashier had noticed the way he was looking at me as well. In fact, she kept trying to get my attention because she saw the embarrassment written all over my face. She then interrupted him by saying "Excuse me sir, but your money is not down in his crotch" which made me blush because she started laughing and he got embarrassed as well because he was busted.

It got a little scary because after paying for his purchases, he almost bumped into the glass door from constantly staring at me and once I paid for my items, I was leaving the store and going to my car and yet, he was sitting in his car waiting for me to leave the store. With that being said, this is why whenever someone gives me the "look" although many times I find it to be flattering, but the other side of it is that it also makes me nervous to a certain degree also.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

There are two looks the hey your cute look and the I wanna bend you over right here look.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I'm from and work in a very metro sexual part of the city where people like to look at others and get noticed themselves. I always wear fitting tshirts that show off my big arms and chest so in that sense I'm hard to miss. I love the attention and I love giving it back to men and women alike. When I get it it makes me feel hot and when I give it I'm pretty certain it makes the recipient feel hot too. I've never had one bad experience or negative reaction if you get your technique just right amd are subtle. You got to do it with a great deal of confidence so when I give it I'm saying I think your hot and I want you to know it. It is just a look, a quick glance, it's over in an instant but the message is loud and clear. What I don't like and find a little creepy is when people lock their gaze at you for an unusually long period of time often as you walk by, it's unneccessary and not that nice. I actually find a lot of old guys do that to young guys. I think it's because they can't afford to be opportunistic as hotter younger guys can and they don't really give a damn what you think. I know some people are into that but it's not me.

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

I actually find a lot of old guys do that to young guys. I think it's because they can't afford to be opportunistic as hotter younger guys can and they don't really give a damn what you think. I know some people are into that but it's not me.

I think this is so true no offense.

 

[AleXXX UK]

I think this is so true no offense.

I think most people would be surprised how horny 'old' people can get. By old, I mean approaching 80. Not so long ago a guy who is 77 and lived through world war 2 befriended me. At first I thought his stories were fascinating and he was sweet but then he became very obsessive and I think he must have been grooming me as the tone over the weeks became more sexual. He was very curious about this guy i had an involvement with. Then one day it became as clear as day what he was up to and i felt kinda sick and I immediately cut off any association. I had no idea what was going on and this dude was married 50yrs and a great grand father. He was pretty much like Herbert the pervert from Family Guy.

I know some young guys are into daddies but this isn't my thing at all.

 

[Steve-O]

I don't really notice as I'm usually too busy undressing oblivious guys with my eyes.