Is it ok to love someone online?

[Thor]

Is it ok to love someone online?

I'm finding more and more that I'm enamored with ppl i meet online!! but we have never met in person lol

 

[XMan101]

Trouble is you get an image in your head and expect that person to be like that. You're effectively falling for a fantasy.

No , nothing wrong with it, but it's important to speak to and see that person before you get too far gone

It also depends on how good a judge of character you are, and this can happen in the non internet world too, but until you've spoken (I mean voice spoken, not typed messages on MSN) and at least seen a picture then you don't know a thing about them !!

 

[Thor]

so would you fall in love with someone you saw a pic of and talked to online? msn? talked too? spoken with?

 

[XMan101]

I have done - I met - I fell in love

Was a girl too

 

[Thor]

I have done - I met - I fell in love

Was a girl too

lol babe..did it work out? hahaha
sorry mike, im in a goofy mood babe...lol

 

[prinz4ming]

Ive fallen in love with ppl online (and chatted with on the phone and seen pics of)... not sure whether its ok or not, but I think its great

 

[glamfunk84]

Online love is some scary sh*t.

 

[iFairylicious]

It depends on who and what goes down lol.

 

[hammervice]

i would think it could take longer online but if one feels that way then thats that

 

[bubbleswallower]

Very shaky and that happens to everyone, Q&A's are the key and becareful too. o_o

 

[BishBosh]

no i dont think theyres anythign wrong with it i fall for ppl online all the time but all he wanted to do was sit on webcam and Masturbate all night o-o so i ended that relationship its not i didnt like it its just it was goign no where and we hardly knew each other but as long as you know the person well enoug feel free to love them and do whatever on webcam :3

 

[XMan101]

he wanted to do was sit on webcam and Masturbate all night

Sounds good to me lol

 

[XMan101]

I heard of people who married online, but I don't know, if they ever met in real life before they made this big step. It's fun to agree in some topics, to find a soulmate online or even fall in love. But you should be careful, some people are fake and don't write what they really mean.

Oh you have to be very careful. On the other hand is that much different to people you meet? I know it's easy to adopt a persona online but they all get found out - "oops sorry no webcam" or "sorry no microphone" or "no don't have any pics" etc

Wonder how many times I've heard an excuse like that! At least in person you can read their eyes.

 

[XMan101]

If someone is genuine they'll talk to you at least - PC mics are so damn cheap it's no excuse! I'll have no time for anyone who says that.

 

[BishBosh]

If someone is genuine they'll talk to you at least - PC mics are so damn cheap it's no excuse! I'll have no time for anyone who says that.

exactly ... its just pointless ;-;

 

[mikawa]

my aunt and my uncle met by msn... and they have a 1'5yo boy... and i've done.... twice... One is a great friend and the other... im not sure what is he, i dont love him like before but he lives near and its handsome and stuff... but the situation is difficult, a long story... anyway, i loved the first for six months and the second one for fifteen months, one lives in argentina and the other lives.... at an hour from my house... and i still havent met them face to face...

its ok loving people online but you have to be careful... my situation could be better and could be worse... now its ok, but i dont know them and it makes me feel a bit sad

 

[XMan101]

Couldn't keep a relationship up that long without meeting or at least speaking.

Been there , done it all !

I prefer being single anyway. Always have I suppose.