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just got engaged

mishguy14

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i just felt like bragging a little bit....but my boyfriend and i just got engaged....it would be nice to get married in our home state but guess we will have to do some traveling in order to get married....anyone know the actual rules and regulations for a gay wedding out of state?
 

gb2000ie

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Yay - congrats!

As for out-of-state weddings, the rules will differ from state to state. I think I heard that NY allow out of state gay marriages.

Bart.
 

Whisper

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Congratulations and like Tom said before me, I wish you and your partner the best :D
 

badboyrudeboy

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congrats, hope you and your other half have a great life with each other and the love never runs out!
 

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Great news! You have every right to brag. Congratulations.

As for out of state marriages - I know that Massachusetts, New York and Washington DC don't have any kind of residency requirement. So anyone can plan a vacation and get married.

Now, how that marriage will be treated in your home state is another matter. Many states have passed laws saying that they will not recognize a same-sex marriage performed in another state. You should hire a lawyer that can explain how that will affect you, and draw up legal agreements to cover you and your partner.

Eventually these laws will be found unconstitutional. But you need to make sure you are protected until then.

And of course, the US federal government does not recognize same-sex marriages. So you won't be able to file joint tax returns. (That will eventually be declared unconstitutional as well - as a matter of fact it already has. But it's being appealed and that could take a couple of years.)

Sorry to dump all this unromantic info on you - but you don't have to think about this now. Just bask in the moment! :heart:
 

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Good For You!

Marriage is a wonderful institution ... but who wants to live in an institution?

* Groucho Marx

Seriously, congrats!:cheers:
 

RuG

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wuhuu awesome! congratulations mishguy14!! hopefully you and your partner will live a happy life in the future :)
 

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Congratulations mishguy14. :thumbs up:
 
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SimplyJakeAndAlex

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Congrats! Now sell your house leave your job and come live in Ontario, we're the first who have open the door to gay wedding Worldwide:rofl:
 
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