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Life's a bitch?!

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What do you do, if you think, that life's a bitch? Do you go out and scream? Do you make sport? Do you especially enjoy the life to tell your mood: "go fuck yourself"? What about crying? (I think, thats my thing: Crying - because sometimes there are things, whitch never can be changed)

Maybe I'm in the right mood for that... And NO, time does not heal anything! And no, this is not a christmasdepression. Yeah I'm a little bitchy... Sorry for that.
 
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Concentrate on a good hobby - takes your mind off things and cheers you up if it's something you enjoy ;)

Eat loads of chocolate too :p
 

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If life is a bitch...f**k it! :D

I wish I could do that though...life is hard indeed for some of us but not many have the strength to fight its bitchness :)
 

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i think life is a bitch sometimes, but some others is really nice and gratifying, :)
its true time doesnt heal everything, but you arent supposed to expect it to heal, you are supposed to remember stuff without getting hurt like if they just happened :)
time does help us mature and be proud of the things we have lived.
My younger brother died some years ago, in my birthday, but i no longer feel sad about it, i do cry sometimes but i am really proud that i got 4 yrs with him -he was 4 yrs old when it happened, cancer on his brain- that i shared his life 4 yrs, that i got the chance to take care of him, and more importantly to meet him, hug him, kiss him, not every parent cant say that about their sons, and not every brother cant either.
so be proud of your past, learn to make it something better :)
there is always a bright side for everything, i suppose, although sometimes its really hard to see it, then you must seek someone to help you find it ^^
-hugs- dont be upset about life silas xxx
 

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i just drink a lot..then sleep:p lol

hope you feel better silas:)
 

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thanks dudes... it does help a little... ERIC: I'm sorry for that. Wish you a lot of strengh...
 

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Several times a month I think life is a bitch...so I'm like you, Silas : I cry...I think about my life, how it sucks, what are the good things I did so far (basically nothing), and why I'm here...after a night of sleep I'm usually better. Not always though.
In those moments I wish so much a nice guy takes me in his arms and comforts me...I just need tenderness, sweetness, love...
 

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In those moments I wish so much a nice guy takes me in his arms and comforts me...I just need tenderness, sweetness, love...

And this is, why I'm sad at the moment. And it's getting worse...
 

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And this is, why I'm sad at the moment. And it's getting worse...

don't let the moment effect you like that..its all a joke anyway..go to bed a nd sleep it off, then wake up and a new day is there:) it may not be better but its another day:) every day we wake up is a new day to change...so just wake up tomorrow:) lol
 

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A new day's a new day for being sad... Can't resist that, can't forget that... And tomorrow live will still be a bitch...
 

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ok..so what do you want? tell us please:)
 

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Cursing... Screaming... Crying... And talking about... That helps. I don't have a hobby to bring me in another mood.
 

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ok babe...i do all that and more....glad you releasing your emotions that way...i love to cry too.it clears up the snot in my nose:p lol
 

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I totally understand you Silas...I`m very often in these sad moods...trust me... but I try to ...don`t know..somehow to joke about the situation...i`m very weird when I talk about my thoughts and worries and my sad moods... If I wasn`t that "crazy" I would have gone nuts a long time ago...I live with my sister and bro in law but I never talk to them about things...our discussions are the normal ones..like what`s for dinner...how are you...good morning...and discussions about things seen on TV ....It`s been a long time since I last talked to someone about other things...about sex for example...or about love...about romance...about...I don`t know things...I mean, I do talk on the forum or on messenger but it`s not or doesn`t feel like the same thing like when you talk face 2 face with someone... I am most of the times single...never had a boyfriend...had some girlfriends in the past...the last GF i had was last Xmas (she was from another country and she had to go home) And I`m a very...don`t know how to say it "hungry" for human contact type of person...I like to be with someone all the time...to cuddle him/her or to be cuddled...to kiss and be kissed...to hug and be hugged...to talk and to listen...but since there`s no one...I feel "alone" most of the time. I`m not living alone but I AM alone...alone in my mind and in my soul...alone in my thoughts...alone in my bed every night...alone when I wake up...alone when I have something to tell but I don`t have to whom ...I know it sounds weird but...this is me...
So, for me, this forum and the way I act is a method to "kill" my sad moods...I laugh about things, I talk about things I don`t talk with my sis or bro in law...I laugh about sadness...and somehow it makes me feel a bit better...it doesn`t fill the emptiness in my soul but it helps going on :)
 

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Thanks for this information^^ :p God in your eyes I surely be a weak cryin' baby... That's not everything about me...
 

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Jamie, you are such a good guy :) Thanks for being so "open" to us. Sometimes it is hard to accept the truth. But life goes on. And this is fine so. It should go on. What does not kill us, makes us harder... I hope there will be a good time for us. And If you wanna talk to somebody, who might understand you, feel free to contact me. I think you are a sympathetic person, who also understands me. Really... Thanks.
 
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Cranking up the music, putting on some dark music and SCREAMING it out. That's probably what I'm gonna be doing a lot of haha.
 

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LIfe is a major bitch but I know for a fact my mom has it a lot worse and has been through hell and back. So knowing what she's been through i don't feel like i have a right to complain. Furthermore, just when one thinks he/she has got it bad..there is always a much worse story out there. I remember growing up in Africa and i know many of my peers from primary school are in much worse situations than im in now...my mom always tells me something in my language: "this hand is not equal" (kinda looses it point in translation). but it basically says everyone has their joys and heartaches, the key to a fulfilling life is to be the grateful for what you have! So when i get really depressed i think about the fact that many ppl have it MUCH MUCH worse than me...and not in a way to be like demean those in a worse state but rather be grateful for the good things in life.
 
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