losing interest

[wardell]

I don't know what it is but the last few days I have been losing interest in porn it's just the same thing over and over it use to be so exciting now it's blah I thought I would try some rough videos like s&m or m&S but that's not for me how can I get the spark back

 

[Shelter]

I don't know what it is but the last few days I have been losing interest in porn it's just the same thing over and over it use to be so exciting now it's blah I thought I would try some rough videos like s&m or m&S but that's not for me how can I get the spark back

Hi Wardell - I think if you will eat every day and every day again the same meal, you very soon don't like it anymore. It doesn't taste you anymore. Make a pause. After a while you will see you will like the porn again and you will see it at the reaction of your own body that you will like it again .

 

[Otage]

Yep. Might be too much porn. For me interest in porn degreased greatly after having sex for the first time. I used to scan same sites every day, always looking for somenthing new and hot, but nowadays, I quite often use my imagination when jerking And now it's fun every now and then do a quick scan and doesn't really matter if there isn't anything "worth" watching. Don't make it a chore, it should be somenthing fun.

 

[gorgik9]

@ shelter
Comparing porn and food doesn't really work, at least not in my book. I eat exactly the same breakfast every morning, I drink gigantic barrels of coffee many, many times a day, and just before going to bed it's a big cup of tea, lapsang souchong with a tad of milk, nothing else. I get grumpy, sour and pouty when I don't get the same procedure as last year, miss Sophie.

@ otage
Speaking with wisdom! Imagination, that's the central fundamental word! The ONLY porno cinema that will cater ONLY to EXACTLY your sexual desire is - of course - your own imagination! It's the only cinematographer that knows exactly what makes not anybodys heart tick, but your heart tick, and not any guys cock rock hard, but your own cock rock hard.

Let your mind float and notice what makes your juices flow, and try to not care about all socio-sexual taboo's; in your imagination you can be totally free in a way that's just impossible in the social world.

When you have made this imaginary and emotional experimentation a few dozen or hundred times, make some notes about what kind of GH-porno that comes closest to what make your cock really hard - and stick with the kinds of porno that you now KNOW is good for your masturbatury life!

There's too much talk about change and variation; what should be done is building good wanking habits - and sticking with them!

 

[Shelter]

@ shelter
Comparing porn and food doesn't really work, at least not in my book. I eat exactly the same breakfast every morning, I drink gigantic barrels of coffee many, many times a day, and just before going to bed it's a big cup of tea, lapsang souchong with a tad of milk, nothing else. I get grumpy, sour and pouty when I don't get the same procedure as last year, miss Sophie.

Well and OK Gorgik - it perhaps doesn't really work with you. And surely yes I have as well every day the same breakfast, and I like my cups of tea (Earl Grey ) But I wouldn't like it to have at every luch a Wiener Schnitzel or Burgers (as we say here "Buletten") there I like the variety.

 

[Otage]

With same breakfest you enjoy the routine, the easiness of not having to think right from the morning what to have, what to do. It's a good solid proven to be working for you routine, great and mellow way to start the day.

But with porn I daily searched the same sites, hoping to every time find somenthing new, better and hotter than before. Well, the porn industry couldn't keep up with my demands:rofl: So you don't hope your breakfest to be better everyday, you expect it to stay the same. Broblem: too high hopes for porn? Focusing on it too much, wanting it to fill somenthing, that it just can't do? Novelty in porn lasts quite long, but not forever, and especially if used on daily basis as mindless masturbatory aid.

When you watch a series on TV on it's airing times, if the show is good, the wait is tough, but worth it. But when you watch it on online at the speed of five episodes/day and skip parts etc, you might grow sick of it pretty fast. Unles it's a frickkin great show. Yeah, just tried to compare watching porn to somenthing

 

[jw4833]

My late partner and I used to watch porn occasionally just out of curiosity to see what's the current thing in the porn industry or to take an idea and act it out to heighten our sexual activities. However, since his death, I very rarely watch porn...I mean I do have porn videos but I seldom think about watching them. Before I decided to start dating again...I used to periodically watch home sex videos that he and I made or when I masturbated...or even fell off to sleep...my mind would always go to something sexually that he and I had done during our relationship. Nonetheless...I have to agree with the other guys' responses in regard to a great possibility that you are growing tired of porn altogether. The one good thing about me dating again is that the guy I'm seeing now and the couple of guys that I was dating prior to him would do private cam videos and send them to me and I have to say that these videos did create a spark in me as oppose to other gay porn that is out there. I LOVE adventurous and exploratory men....haha...!!!!

 

[topdog]

I agree with Gorgik9. Porn is someone else's idea of what is sexy. Maybe you need to write down your own fantasies. Find a porn photo that turns you on, and write paragraph or two about the story that is taking place. Be the person in the picture and write down what they are thinking, as if they were writing a journal or diary.

 

[iltman]

i can't remember who said it but i've always believed that the largest and most important organ in sex is the brain. I've been watching porn on and off for 30 years and yes there's been times when i go off porn because its become stale and boring. but i keep an eye on new releases and new models and eventually the old pecker livens up again and my interest revives, the thing is i watch porn as an aid to my imagination rather then a straight up masturbation aid, so my advise stop watching the porn for a bit, and get into writing down your fantasies, perhaps populating them with some of your fav porn actors, never forget on fantasy everything is possible

 

[HustleMe15]

I've Actually Done This!

I agree with Gorgik9. Porn is someone else's idea of what is sexy. Maybe you need to write down your own fantasies. Find a porn photo that turns you on, and write paragraph or two about the story that is taking place. Be the person in the picture and write down what they are thinking, as if they were writing a journal or diary.

When I was working on my Tumblr blog (I stopped that for a while cause it was getting boring, but it's still there) a friend of mine in real life would get together and think up back stories to a particular picture. And then work on the forward going story. It's really quite fun, and probably 100% way off. Maybe I should start a thread with a picture and the story to go with it.

 

[wardell]

When I was working on my Tumblr blog (I stopped that for a while cause it was getting boring, but it's still there) a friend of mine in real life would get together and think up back stories to a particular picture. And then work on the forward going story. It's really quite fun, and probably 100% way off. Maybe I should start a thread with a picture and the story to go with it.

It's a good idea thanks