What bothers me about that video is that I don't know which character that other guy is. I can't find him listed as any member of your squad - I thought the romancing options were for members of your squad and not some random guy on a ship.
His name is Cortez. He's in the Shuttle room, last floor on the Normandy.
Also, just like in DRAGON AGE, people absolutely hated how you can have gay relationshiops on there. I remember reading what someone posted/sent to EA, saying shit on how it's wrong and so on, but EA (I think) posted a HUGE response to him, saying that if he didn't want to see the gay stuff, don't play through the gay scenerios. Same thing here. If people don't like the gay scenerios, don't pick the lines or whatever to be hit on OR you hit on another guy. Let us, the gamers, decide what we want to do in the game. It's OUR choice and OUR decision. Don't blame the creators of the game. They want US to have the freedom to decide how we play OUR games. (Thought I'd post this too while it was in my head. Lol.)
Oh, and DAAAAMN Shepard is hot. I wonder if someone did some....suggestive pics of him. Eh, might as well ask on here.