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[Otage]

Had wonderfull week with this wonderfull guy, we hid it off right away, had lot in common, and it was all just big blast sex and fun vise. But one broblem, I was horny as hell all the time, and so was he, but I just couldn't at all during the whole week. And I really really liked the guy, lookvise he wasn't perfect, but he just seems perfect for my taste. I love his persona! Could it be that we jumped to sex too soon or somenthing like that? And we were drunk most of the week, but that hasn't been broblem in one night stands before. I'm puzzled. He's the kinda guy I could someday say, that I love him.

 

[lhardwick69]

usually when guys are turned on a lot they tend to quicker than later-- first of all--whether you with the guy for sex or relationship looks aren't what makes the man--a man can be a total fuckin stud on outside but on inside be one ugly major prick-- so looks don't make the guy---


drinking can tend to keep from ming I been with guys that were drunk can be hard as a brick fuck forever and never --others I seen quickly--maybe you two need to be sober get to know one another more-- that way you wont use being drunk is the reason why things happen the way they did

 

[Otage]

Thanks. I so hope it was just because of the alcohol It's nice to hear somenthing similiar from someone else.

 

[juancamilogo]

Yes, alcohol is definitely a inhibitor.

What happens to me also, is that when I really like the guy, and I feel pressured to have perfect sex with him and show him how I (I usually a lot), then I have problems with it. It's something in the back of my mind that inhibits me from ming.

I've been with this guy 3 or 4 times already and I'm never ming... :-/

 

[tonka]

If your friend is on antidepressant or anti anxiety meds, it can really affect ming.

 

[gorgik9]

Hello my Nordic brother!

I think you've gotten some very sensible advise, so in case you and your friend aren't on some anti-depressive medication, I'd definitely go for the alcohol. In my experience what kind of alcohol (beer, wine, vodka etc) is of some importance, but mostly the amount, how much. If you have a couple of glasses of wine it shouldn't create any problem.

But if you're gonna have sex - stay off the Koskenkorva Vodka and not too much Lapinkulta Beer...

 

[W!nston]

I'd guess the alcohol played a major role in your problem Otage. As others have noted. Prescription drugs can be an inhibitor as well.

There is another factor that has affected my libido. Nervousness or anxiety has kept me from climaxing before. When I was too eager to please a partner it has happened. If I feel insecure about the level of his attraction for me compared to my attraction for him that can douse the flame too.

The best thing to do is not put too much emphasis on a failure to climax. Consider it an anomaly and things will be better the next time. If it happens over and over then do some soul searching. Maybe you aren't as attracted to him as you think. That's my best advice brother.

Sniffit

 

[Otage]

But if you're gonna have sex - stay off the Koskenkorva Vodka and not too much Lapinkulta Beer...

Haha! You really know your(my) stuff:rofl: