omg I`m in love & it Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[hammervice]

Hello all i`m in love and it sucks ass so much

I have knew this one gurl for years we was just friends ,then became lovers and broke up (long story) well now for the last month we have been spending lots of time together she now whats to go back to just beein friends but i need more
I try not to think about her but im hooked she rules my thoughts night and day .when i been with other gurls Or guys i wish it was her I dream about her all the time.

I had in the past just one person that i really care about , so this has to be love this time and its suck ass , I just cry so much now but this will not end in happiness.


I don`t know how to get over her , she very kool to talk to i have fun hanging out with her.She so fucking cute.

i dunno

 

[topdog]

Lets make sure that we've got all the facts out here.

• You and this girl(I'll call her "Sue") were close friends for many years, and then transitioned into a romantic relationship.
• [That lasted how long?] Then someone wanted to get out [who and why?] and left the other shattered [Hammer or Sue?] [Are you back to being friends?]
• You can't move on from her. You want to get back together with her. [Big question: How does she feel albout how you feel? What does she want to to about it?]

If you could add some more insight here that would help. Sorry for your busted heart, man.That's a lot of pain and not much you can do other than live through it.

Of course if you are the artistic type this a gold mine. This is where the great poems, novels, songs, and operas come from.

 

[name_1]

mannn, i understand what you're going through.. perhaps if you could answer topdog's qns, it would help for you to understand wth is going on but in the end i think it still bores down to: just life dude..
i guess we all just gotta accept it..

 

[bjlegs]

That's a tough one. Just try not to let it eat away at you. Time is always a great healer - but you never know what might happen, so don't do anything drastic.

But most importantly... don't let it distract you from posting your awesome videos!!

 

[hammervice]

will thank you guys for your input....


sue and I have know each other since i was like 16 or 17yrs old many years.
we was just friends at first then she had a kid with some one ( the kid is awesome
very cute playful gurl that really listen and seems to like me very much.
We was a couple for almost a year , she wanted out she got busy
she had tons of personal family stuff that happen with her folks.



Now we are back to being friends i was very sad that she dated someone else and i never like this one guy she
would talk to.

I think she has love for me and would want to get back together but just scary at losing the friendship that we have
if things dont work out this time.We are great friends we dont fight have great inside jokes keep each other thoughts to yourself.


I have seen other people never never never had feeling like this , i have liked someone else
but never this strong of love i have for sue.

when we was not talking i would dream about her all the time
she someone i would love to grow old with.
this time i need and want to hold on forever.


we look so great together and she feels so great when i have her in my arms

growing up i just always wanted someone to love and make a family with she would be awesome she a great mom 2.



it does eat me alive lots of time i just sit here thinking about her, but i have to post my clips it does slow me down but i will keep posting.


We hang out today and i just so miss her i hate to say goodbye.

 

[name_1]

quite an irony dont you think?
People generally try their best to find the one person that they can irrevocably say that they love... But once he found that person, he then realise the person might have just torn open another hole in his heart

 

[hammervice]

quite an irony dont you think?
People generally try their best to find the one person that they can irrevocably say that they love... But once he found that person, he then realise the person might have just torn open another hole in his heart

so fucking true, I kind of wish i just never ever met her in the first place

If i had to do it all over i would not.

 

[topdog]

You really love her - that's clear. That wonderful, awful, exquisite, tortured state that we stumble into if we are really lucky.

But here's the other side of the equation: she's not in love with you. She tried on the glass slipper and it just didn't fit. It doesn't matter what the reason is; it doesn't matter how strong your love is; she's backed away. If you love her, you have to respect her decision. She may still want your company and friendship - but don't mistake that for hope.

She has taken a different path, so now you're walking alone - something you hadn't planned on. It's a huge disappointment, and a waste of so much love and feeling, but you have to go forward without her to the next part of your life. You need to ask "What's next?". Find some way to take a step toward your future without her.

Lean on your friends. Go out to dinner with them; go to a movie; go away for a weekend; go to a party with them. Find something to get you out and moving. You don't need to find somebody else now, you just need find your next step, and then the next one after that.

It's going to be one of the hardest things you've ever done - which is why you need outside help. I am so sorry you are going through this.

Here's a song for you:

 

[bornrebel88]

Love sucks sometimes. my bf basically tore my heart out and I wish I could just say I hate him and move on, but I can't. Part of me is still very much in love with me, and it hurts cuz he told me he was in love with me too but still ended up cheating on me with the one guy I told him I didn't trust. Sucks cuz I have a few guys who want to date me and theyre great but I can't stop thinking about how I miss my ex.