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Question About Str8 Guys

tonka

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If a guy let's you blow him, he can still be strait. He can close his eyes and feel the pleasure.

But if he has his mouth on a dick, a dick in his ass, his dick in a male ass...he's just not ready to own up to his nature.
 
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The only person who can answer that question is the guy himself.. We always debate whether a straight man is bi or gay if he has some form of sexual contact with another man, but does that justify closet gay men who've only had sexual contact with women? It doesn't make them bi or straight. Your sexuality is not solely based on your actions but by that instinctive feeling from within and no one will ever know how one truly feels unless they are open about it.

Of course the example mentioned is not ideal, but sexuality is so complex that it is unfair to pigeon-hole an individual based on his experiences.. In the end, sexual contact is still sexual contact and it is pleasurable regardless to gender or persuasion. The difference is your natural cravings - so sexuality is not based on experiments or trial and error or who you tried it on with during a moment of desperation.
 

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A few years ago, I met a well known gay porn star at a club and instead of focusing on dancing around the club to make some money, he decided toward the last hour of the night that he would engage himself into a conversation with me. We exchanged e-mail, IM, etc. addresses and one evening while chatting with him, he revealed to me that he was straight. Initially, I thought he was joking until he kept saying over and over that he was straight and he just do what he does for the money and nothing else. I found this very difficult to believe considering that he also perform gay sex in a great number of videos that featured him getting fucked, him sucking cock, rimming and kissing a lot..which he told one of his partners that he loved kissing them...as well as all the above. He explained to me that when he is performing gay sex, he has to put himself in a mind set to believe that what is happening during this time is with a woman instead of a man. This mind set he says, keeps his cock erect and the fact that a straight video is playing in the background as well. However, after seeing some of his videos, you can see that there was no straight video playing because you can tell that he was really into what was happening between him and his male partner that they were times when he would let them cum over his face or in his mouth.

He and I preceded to get into a long conversation about how I perceived him to be a confused gay/bisexual man who does not want to accept that he likes having sex with men. He had made over 100 videos and I feel that for someone who claim to be straight is not going to put himself out there in such a public display knowing that those who think he is straight would come across a video of him performing gay sex. A couple of days later, I had this conversation with a few of my straight friends and I asked them there opinions on this subject matter and they told me that there is no way he is straight and that he is just lying to himself. The way I see it, I'm a gay man, and you would never see me eating pussy and having sex with women and still proclaiming to be gay. Where is the logic in this????
 

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If a guy let's you blow him, he can still be strait. He can close his eyes and feel the pleasure.

But if he has his mouth on a dick, a dick in his ass, his dick in a male ass...he's just not ready to own up to his nature.

I've never had or wanted a dick in me. I have had my dick in many guys and girls. I wouldn't call myself straight, I do consider myself bi. It's the easiest label. I tend to chase the girls and have my way with them. I don't normally chase guys unless he's super hot but if they throw themselves at me, who am I to say no? An ass is an ass, a worth is a mouth. Thats how I've always seen it. Most porn I watch is gay so another reason why I consider myself far from straight.
 

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Well I read an article a few months back that basically said many men who label themselves as straight have occasional sexual encounters with men, whether it's just kissing, or going all the way, but that they're not gay b/c they don't choose to identify that way..... the article said that when hetero women go lesbian yet claim to still be hetero, that no one challenges their claims and that men should be treated the same
 

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Maybe sexual activity and love should be separated. Making love and fucking might be separated activities for some.
 

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I have to agree with Casanova. No single sexual act or combination of acts can define a person's sexuality. Over the years I've had some wonderful "straight" encounters/affairs.
These guys were wonderful lovers and there were several that had no limits. I say no limits but there was a limit - the only other man they ever had sex with was me. Although there wasn't anything they wouldn't do, I have always considered them straight.
 
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