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Just wanted to see if it is just me or is it more common than I thought. Are there less guys interested in having a monogamous relationship?
 

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I think many gays like it to have many sexual adventures. Bujt as well there are many too which are happy to live in monogamous relationship. I found my BF with 17 and today I'm 27 and I'm living always with him in a happy (not everyday -:) ) relationship. I love it to have one person where I can lean my head onto his shoulder and a person which I can trust.
 

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Monogamy is a ugly word, it sounds like something to be endured rather than something to be enjoyed. Faithful is a nicer word. I am faithful to my sweetheart in that I could never lie to him, I am never going to love anyone else, I will do anything for him including sacrificing my life, but to say I will never have sex with anyone else is a promise not worth making. If I made that promise it only risks causing grief when it inevitably gets broken by one of us. Of course you don't play away very often and never bareback with strangers but a little bit of harmless fun is no more than that. We have more important things to worry about than a bit of harmless fun.
 

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My boyfriend is my one and only partner. Do we ever fantasize about other guys? Sure! Do we go out and to things with others on our own? No.
He is the one I want to be with and we are both happy to fulfill each other's fantasies.
So, we're currently exploring the option of doing something with others (another guy or another couple) - but together.
 

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Dear Richardbb - I think your wish could evolve dangerous! I wouldn't do that, but perhaps I'm a little bit jealous -:)
 

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I wish you luck Richard, a successful threesome will do your marriage good but it's not as easy as it looks.
In a porno threesome the director is giving orders, telling the boys what to do so that everybody gets an equal share of the action.
In real life it's hard to avoid the danger that one of you feels more like the 1 in a 2+1 instead of one side of an equilateral triangle.
What you need is someone like ChiChi LaRue to give instructions.
 

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Now that the forum is working again I want to thank everyone for their responses. Guess sometimes it takes longer for some people to find their other half. The other reason I tend to lean towards monogamy is once you get to that place where people guys are clear and you trust each others you can lose the condoms.
 

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I tend to lean towards monogamy is once you get to that place where people guys are clear and you trust each others you can lose the condoms.

In my view you are totally right. If you live together with one partner for a long time you will trust him as I do to my BF and we don't use condoms which makes the sex more intense.
 
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