Some Guys Can Be Such Hypocrites!!!

[jw4833]

While visiting a certain social network that I'm not going to mention by name...over the past month, I've noticed how there are guys who have done or said things to me within a conversation and yet, if someone else post a topic in reference to what we had spoke about..they would criticize that person. For example, the Cock Awareness campaign which is promoting testicular cancer that is currently being talked about a lot lately. This guy had posted a super critical post about how guys are stripping down and wearing a sock over their penises as being pretentious and on the verge of being pornographic. He also came to the conclusion that many of the guys were using this cause and campaign as an excuse to post naked pictures of themselves. What surprised me is the fact that a few months ago...this same guy had contacted me directly and started taking the conversation to a sexual level and then preceded to send me pics of him naked and also pictures of him having sex with a guy where he was making sure that I noticed that he was the bottom in all the pictures that he sent. Therefore, who is to talk???...haha:roflr a guy who pursues you constantly but tells you that he's single and want to go out with you ...yet...a day later...he is posting pictures of him and his boyfriend on vacation...and yes...sends you naked pics of himself as well...?????..one guy that contacted me and yes..sent me naked pictures posted the very next day an announcement regarding his engagement to his partner..which btw..he mentioned he was totally single for over two years...???....wtf????

 

[james1981]

Wow! I've never encountered issues like those. I feel like I've lived such a sheltered life after reading this. I also feel like I should follow you around for a month jw4833 because the situations you find yourself in sound rather interesting.

Thanks for sharing.

 

[jw4833]

Wow! I've never encountered issues like those. I feel like I've lived such a sheltered life after reading this. I also feel like I should follow you around for a month jw4833 because the situations you find yourself in sound rather interesting.

Thanks for sharing.

Haha....you know what:? is so crazy about this is that I did not create an account on this particular website. One of my close buddies went through some of my photo albums one day while I was in the kitchen cooking and took some pics of me that my late partner took and he edit them and created the account in order for me to meet new guys. I just kept it because just to talk to different guys around the world. Just last week...a guy contacted me and he told me that he too was single and wanted to take me out to dinner because he was coming to my city for business. However, a couple of days later...he announced on his page that he and his female fiance were expecting a baby soon and they were going to get married in a few months...!!!!!!!!! this is what I don't understand....lol :?

 

[explrrrs]

I logged on to the site today to, specifically, look up on the topic of married men. I thought that with so many guys, someone would have broached this topic. I couldn't find one. jw4833 response is probably the closest thing that I have found.

I haven't been in a relationship for quite some time and decided to give it a try again. In fact I didn't have sex for a few years because of the last relationship and let me tell you, I won't ever be having sex without a condom, trust... why even apply that word to a relationship?
Regardless, the guy I finally hit it off with ends up being married. I'm at a loss of what to do.
On the one hand, I always told myself I wouldn't get in a relationship like this. I've seen the hurt it can cause; if I did end up in a pile of sucky, I'd just up and leave the whole mess. It really ain't that easy.
One, don't want to let go and if I do, I'd end up hurting the guy. But who am I fooling, the relationship will end up in a pile of shit at the bottom of some tower window. It's so confusing and the whole situation is so wrong.
I've really realized that the hypocrite isn't just him, it is me. I wish someone had some answers or experience on how to back out of this situation. There has got to be some better answer than telling the guy he's a douche bag, I'm a fucker and we're both going to go to end up being judged for this one. I really wish someone has a graceful way to exit this fucked up situation. Yeah he's an asshole, but at the same time, he's married and struggling with his identity? I think I just ended up barfing a shitload through the keyboard.