Special Wishes

[Shelter]

Since a long time my BF and I are very fascinated by porns with electro-stimulation of the nipples, the glans or the balls as well by porn movies with sounding. Regularly both of us will have a rock hard boner when we are watching such movies or clips.

And now my BF has asked me that we should buy such an electro-stimulator and some sounding bars so that we have a new horny sex toy. Well so far - so good.

I like these things to watch in porn-clips - but in real on me? I think I'll be a little bit afraid in using these things.

My question to all of you who have experience with these toys: shall we do that? Will it be perhaps dangerous? Could we injure ourselves with these things?

My BF is be on fire to buy such things at once and I don't want to disappoint him with my "NO". Will you please give me a piece of advice??!! :thinking::thinking:

 

[dargelos]

Shelter, you have asked this same question a year ago, have look back then, I cant remember what I said that long ago. But for now, you mentioned nipples. This is the one area where you can hurt yourself, don't play with electric nipple clamps until you are experienced with all the other toys. Reason; your tits are close to your heart, which is sensitve to electric shock. Once you know what you are doing then tit fun is safe but not until then. Sounds are safe electricly but they require surgical levels of hygiene to avoid infection, ie sterile lube from use once sachets, hand washing, boiling after use. There's a lot to learn.
For a beginer, start off with an aluminium butt plug paired with a conductive rubber loop around the glans. You cant go wrong with that set up then build up as you gain experience. Note that any products made by Zeus or Rimba are rubbish, the good stuff is not cheap but it is an investment, if it keeps your man happy it's money well spent.

 

[dargelos]

Something I must add about those clips on the ?tube sites. They are not all genuine. Sometimes you can see the sub screaming in terror, as if he'd just seen the ghost of Thatcher, and then when you look more closely, the equipment isn't even wired up correctly or the leds aren't flashing so the power is off, so it's all acting. These clips give the wrong impression. If you are with a dom who you trust ( and only an idiot would work with a dom who he couldnt trust) there is no place for fear. When you say stop, he will stop.

 

[Shelter]

Thank you Dargelos for your always very honest words and advices. I really appreciate them. And yes I know that I have asked nearly the same question a longer time ago. But then this theme was lost again and came up again between us in the last weeks.

Well I've said that we like these clips and they will make us horny - may they be honest or fakes. But yesterday I've spoken to my BF and asked him to forget to buy such things. We have so many nice toys with which we can play and with which we are used to. So these sounding bars are horny to watch in action as well this electro things - but not with me. I don't want to get injuries - and he has shown insight.

But I don't know - perhaps in a year or two I'll ask again. -