the talk

[wardell]

I'm curious when you were younger who gave you. "The Talk" and who did you go to with all your sex questions. For me it was my mom she gave me the talk and I went to her My sex questions. I couldn't even talk to my father. I may have said this before but funny story. one day me and a friend were playing and he told me he heard a new word horny and ask me if I knew what it meant I said o guess it means you play a horn like a trumpet so my friend went all day saying his sister is horny lol my mom heard and told us it's real meaning ever since then I went to her with all my questions. So did you go to mom dad brother sister,

 

[Lucas88]

I've never asked anyone about sex. I just watched porn and took notes.
I'd rather eat pussy than talk to my parents about sex

 

[Jonny]

I never really got "the talk" or had any questions.

Everything about sex I've learned / figured out on my own.

 

[gb2000ie]

I got 'the talk' from both my parents together. Honestly, I think they did well.

They said there was nothing to be ashamed of, they gave me a nice illustrated book about the facts of life, told me to read it at my leisure, and that if I had any questions at all, to ask them.

I'd been jacking off for quite a few years by then (early bloomer), so what I remember most was being relieved that masturbation was normal and healthy.

B.

 

[gorgik9]

Well sex education was obligatory in Swedish schools and it happened for the first times when us kids were 8-10 years old - it was very heteronormative and centered on reproduction.

Then there was the other kind of non-obligatory education, centered on pleasure and having fun; most of it was self education and together with other boys the same age.

 

[dargelos]

At home, nothing or less than nothing.
At school, a film about rabbits, the teacher embarrassed, the children sniggering.
Thank heavens for sexual autodidactism.

 

[brmstn69]

A neighbor boy taught me everything, and I do mean EVERYTHING, I needed to know...:devil:

 

[mattla]

I kind of figured it out on my own without the parents or other family members. Although I got along very well with both my parents I really could not imagine having that discussion with either one of them. I think my father was more of the opinion that we would find out for ourselves. I think that my mother would have had the talk if I would have asked - that was just not going to happen. Mom tended to be honest and open about most things - almost like too much information - although she did not really talk about sex stuff. I think if she had I would have been scarred for life - even now the thought makes me cringe just a bit.

 

[gorgik9]

At home, nothing or less than nothing.
At school, a film about rabbits, the teacher embarrassed, the children sniggering.
Thank heavens for sexual autodidactism.

I wonder if we watched the same film of rabbits fucking? :rofl:

 

[gorgik9]

And coming to think about it: Why the fuck RABBITS???

Why not dogs? Or horses? Or people?

 

[Shelter]

And coming to think about it: Why the fuck RABBITS???

Why not dogs? Or horses? Or people?

But dear Gorgik you must know rabbits are sooooooo cute!!

 

[smallsleepyrascalcat]

And coming to think about it: Why the fuck RABBITS???

Why not dogs? Or horses? Or people?

For the same reason there's an easter bunny. Rabbits are very fertile.

 

[AdenaTG]

My uncle and he noticed me always looking at other boys and he told me that guys just mess with girls but I wanted so badly to touch other boys and be with boys

 

[jw4833]

My father passed away when I was 12 years old and although I have older brothers....but they weren't around much when I was growing up and therefore, for "the talk"...it was my older cousin who gave that to me.

 

[havocs]

I got a very awkward talk about sex from my mom when I was discovered looking at porn, it was more of a lecture....

 

[Wohltorf]

No talk. Geeky kid that I was, I found out all I needed to now from an old set of Encyclopedia Americana under 'copulation.' Of course, half the article was about horrible diseases and complications. Nevertheless, it got me started & a copy of Lady Chatterly's Lover did the rest. Pretty soon, following my inclinations, I figured out that it worked with guys as well--and finally--even better!

 

[wardell]

I most be very unusual I have had any problems asking my mother about anything.

 

[Otage]

We have the same as in Sweden. First sex education is all ready on elementary shcools. Though my time gay "sex" was meantioned only 'some people can be interested loving the same sex'. Dad asked some time, that do we need to have the talk, but I said I got it covered. He then mumbeld smth about condoms

 

[wardell]

The only thing my father did was show me a condom because he did not want me think it was a balloon

 

[marblez]

I had a set of Childcraft Emcyclopedias that had all the basic it it. In fact got into a little trouble by holding a sexed class on the bus one day. But I had a cousin one year older who had a more hands on approach when i was around 8 or 9 that was when I really learned how good sex was