Threesome...

[thedivaprincess]

Alright guys, I have a little bit of a dilemma that I'm hoping I can get some advice on. You've got your fag (me), your hag (my best friend), and your stag (my best friend's hunky boyfriend). Anyway... I was hanging with my hag today and we were chatting away when all of a sudden the discussion turned to sex (which with her it seems to a lot! Hahahaha!). She brings it to my attention that about six months ago she purchased a strap-on dildo and has been using it to fuck the stag ever since! Apparently it's now even gotten to the point where he insists that after he's fucked her... She fucks him. So I'm kind of very "wow" as this stag is one EXTREMELY macho guy, and the idea that he not only willing takes it up the arse, but also enjoys it is just mind-boggling. And hot. But that's not the point. Here's my dilemma.

My hag informs me that the stag has told her he wants a threesome. With another guy. In particular, he's singled me out (I don't know why, as my hag has no shortage of fags). So... Eeeeep. What do you think I should do? The stag IS hot, and has some nice equipment (my hag likes to share pictures), so I could very easily have some fun with him in a heartbeat (provided she was approving). But I'm unsure on this idea. I've NEVER done anything with a girl more than kiss. And I don't know exactly how this whole threesome idea is going to work. And I'm worried about whether or not it might make things different between me and my hag.

Has anyone else gone through this or something similar? I really need some advice!

Disclaimer: I apologise for continual usage of fag, hag and stag, but I really didn't want to use my friend or her partner's name just in case. She'd kill me. Haha.

 

[thedivaprincess]

Hmmmm, I think you're right Jonny. After reading what you had to say and that excerpt from 'Chasing Amy' and a LOT of hard thinking, I think the only thing to do IS politely decline. Here's hoping she doesn't hit the roof! She has issues with 'No'. I blame only child syndrome coupled with her being spoilt rotten. Haha. I'll let you know how I go!

And thanks. :-D

 

[jw4833]

Someone on the forum had brought this subject matter up earlier..I have done this with a guy and a girl..(bf and gf) and they had talked me into participating with them. However, I thought it was going to be a one time thing..which wound up being a little over two years..I'll be honest..it did create a lot of drama..because the bf wound up enjoying having sex with me moreso than his woman and she was not pleased at all with me..when I look back on it..I let it go on too long and should have stopped it once the drama was setting..so, if I were you..if you decide you want to go through with it, make sure everything is on the table so to speak, and don't get caught up in it because I'm telling you from what you spoke on in your post, if this guy already got you tagged as the third wheel, then if he really gets into it..this could cause drama between you and your girl..so give it a lot of thought before acting upon it..Wish you the best on whatever...

 

[XMan101]

Considering the initial post was made in 2008 I suspect any deeds and consequences have already been sorted out

 

[Irishman25]

so what happened?? lol

 

[Askani]

Lmao 2008 ? xD How come it only showed up now? And we had no update of the case? I'd only be concerned with my friend as it could be her need to be with me(which once happened) or that her bf would end up liking me too... But still I wanna know how it ended -_-

 

[Irishman25]

alas it might be just left up to our imaginations

 

[VinceSF]

OK, something different. I got proposed for a threesome this weekend and I'm kind of nervous. Any thoughts? I want to try it and they are willing couples but still how do you approach it? Sorry, very new to the scene so it might sound stupid. xD

 

[SimplyJakeAndAlex]

OK, something different. I got proposed for a threesome this weekend and I'm kind of nervous. Any thoughts? I want to try it and they are willing couples but still how do you approach it? Sorry, very new to the scene so it might sound stupid. xD

Barca dude, just try it and you'll find out... I did also invited you to join Alex and I when we'll go for our honeymoon in SF (which you haven't replied yet LOL). Threesome are awesome but you need to learn about the couple first. If you were to have a threesome with me and Alex, you should know that Alex refuses to be penetrated by anybody else than I (while I don't mind being fucked by other people than my husband). While I could fuck you, and you could fuck me, and Alex would fuck you but you can't fuck him. Get some specifics from the couple and try it. You have to try things at least once and if you don't like it, well you'd tried and you didn't like it and it stays as that.

 

[VinceSF]

^^ LMAO, I know but that time I wasn't sure since I've never done it and I've never seen you guys. What did Alex say about me? I'm 22 cm btw.

Thanks for the advice tho! I have to figure that out and ask those then! It's like being in a candy store since one of them asked what I would like to do. lol