True Love

[Shelter]

Hello Guys - this will be a question which perhaps will provoke a head-shaking on your side.

But nevertheless - what do you think makes the real value of a TRUE LOVE? How are your feelings? How far you will go for undergoing a real true love?

 

[frontlemon]

I think the real value of true love is made by sacrifices. As regards to how far will I go..., I think the real question is how far can I go, and in that respect I think that I am still a novice with respect to understanding and giving out "TRUE LOVE".

 

[Rebel7]

Hmm...True L:heart:ve, that love which you don't fall but you rise (pun intended!)

Personally, I guess it should give the feeling of freedom., free to be you and do your things. The love that teaches you detachment not attachment. That love which is original, you as a whole and your other whole are the creator of it. You be a mirror and read each other, issues like trust and other insecurities ain't stuff you spend time talking about. Me thinks the value of such love resides in the simplicity/originality in both living and expression of it.

 

[dargelos]

True love depends on externalisation. As a child your hopes and fears are about yourself and your greatest pleasures are those you experience your self. Falling in love is final stage in growing up to become a complete adult. Love teaches you that the greatest pleasure is to give pleasure to someone else. When you're in love your hopes and fears are no longer about yourself but about your lover. The focus of your life is now external. It's a great responsibility and at the same time a great liberation. There's never been anything better and there never will be.

 

[SophieSweets]

I'm too Romantic.. a strong believer in True Love.. In terms of the 'Oh yeah I'd Totally die for that person in a heartbeat' kind of Love...
That... 'yeah we happened to be born in separate bodies by some kind of clerical mix up, but emotionally we're the same thing, and we try and rectify the physical mistake by getting inside each other as often as we can...' Kind of Love...
Basically, I love a person like it's the first day we got together throughout the relationship...
I've only ever had one long-term love...
We're still friends... Apparently I was 'Tiring' :-D

 

[Sinnerr]

I see it simple. Love is chemistry. Opposites do not attract. So you need someone who is like you, likes same or similar music, clothes, food... Someone who Has similar beliefs (politics, philosophy) etc. Your kinks and sexual tastes should be compatible too...

I believe that being hopeless romantic is not way to go. You will do better being yourself doing your hobbies, fullfilling your wishes etc... and there you most likely will meet someone who is on same wawe as you... By the way: Healthy confidence si definitely a good thing.

At the end of my post I have something what doesn't come from my head. I'm too young and unexperinced after all. Well, here I go: I heard it said: that relationship has future if you both enjoy watching into each other's eyes, since its only part of human body what doesn't change in time. - It sounds like it's not a nonsense to me.

Keep the faith :heart: bitches

 

[Shelter]

Thank you for your post Sinnerr - and I'll agree with you that love is chemistry - but not only chemistry as well a shot of romantic (not hopeless but hopeful)

I think that for two persons who will fell in love, it must be too a little bit of romantic in it.
I feel so because I'm not only a realistic man, but, as well deep in my head, a romantic man.
I'm not ashamed to say that, but it is wonderful during a movie, which perhaps is very sad or very moving, I must cry and than it is for me really VERY romantic if my boyfriend will take his arms around me and I can cuddle at his shoulder. If he would be only realistic he would push me away and ask me if I would be mad or so.

 

[dargelos]

Many will agree with Sinner that opposites do not attract. I don't think that needs to be the case. If love is like chemistry the strongest reaction is beween an acid and an alkaline, this is a passionate affair which, like the chemical reaction, may end in an explosion. And after you mix the two chemicals you are left with a stable compound which will be safe for many years to come. That's how my love story went anyway.
Oxygen and nitrogen are similar gases which for most of their lives exist side by side in the air, ignoring each other like the partners in a dull relationship. That's what you get if you are both too similar.

 

[jw4833]

If you have read any of my previous posts, you are very familiar with me mentioning my late partner. My late partner and I had been friends for years and once he found out about what I was enduring during my "dark period", he was there for me as much as I had allowed him to be...(remember..I told you..I have a lot of pride...). After I was raped, due to the physical beating that I received and how my attacker had pried my mouth open and poured alcohol down my throat while I was feeling the influence of the drugs that I had took prior to his actions which had sedative effects. My lungs had collapsed and from that I was not able to talk or swallow solid foods for about a year and a half. My partner stood by me throughout all of this non-stop and he had a tremendous impact on me being able to talk again because he would play flash cards with me daily and pronounciate certain words in order to get me to say them. Throughout this time...I was and still am amazed at how he displayed to me that there is such a thing as true love. Also, he was a very, very attractive man who had a lot of guys vying for his attention...and yet, he did not leave my side and asked me to be his life partner...In fact, he moved me in with him and once I was able to lead a normal life again...we went away on vacation and talked about having a wedding before he passed away. His memory lives on within me and I thank him for showing that there is actually such a thing as "true love"

 

[Shelter]

Yes JW4833 what you have told here that is TRUE LOVE! And I hope so much you will find it again for your life.

I love you!!!!!!

 

[jw4833]

Yes JW4833 what you have told here that is TRUE LOVE! And I hope so much you will find it again for your life.

I love you!!!!!!

:blushing: thanks buddy...JW

 

[dargelos]

You're a tougher man than me, jw. If I lost my husband I couldn't possibly imagine how I would cope. You deserve to find happiness again.