Ever since I had taken a second job as a bartender, that was the beginning of me seeing the unimaginable as well as the unbelievable. Since then, I have seen so much in my life as well as experienced a lot, that there is nothing at the present time that is shocking or I find believable. For example, I have been told by some people that I tend to be too paranoid or cautious when a guy shows interest in me. Its not so much of being paranoid, but yes, I am very cautious and take my time getting to know someone on an intimate level because too many guys nowadays have hidden agendas or fail to approach you with a believable persona. Therefore, in these times, you need to be careful of whom you bring into your environment.