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brmstn69

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Frankly, I don't give a flying fuck what others think of me. My opinion of myself is the only one that matters...
 

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More than forty years ago I did bother what others thought about me. But since I've become adult (I was not a quickie, that lasted almost until I was thirty) that wish disappeared completely. I don’t give a damn what others think about me. The man in the mirror is my partner on that subject. That does not mean I do not consider my environment. Politeness and consideration for others is important. Respect is a prerequisite for mutual understanding.
 
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SimplyJakeAndAlex

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Doesn't give a flying fedoodle, I am what I am, If I have to deal with you then be ready to deal with me :cheers:
 

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When I was younger, I used to care what others thought about me because I was brought up in a very judgmental and very opinionated environment. However, as I became an adult and got out on my own, I could give a f**k what others thought. In fact, whenever I was confused or unsure about embarking on something new or taking something to the next level, I would put myself in the company of people whom I know that have a negative impact or opinions on any and everything that concerned my welfare. Therefore, I would take their negativity and make it into a positive encouragement booster which only confirmed to me to take that next step or to embark on that next level that I was confused about. Therefore, whenever someone goes out of their way to say something negative to me in regard to something that I'm projecting as a positive gesture, then I know immediately that I am doing something right because I feel that with all that is happening in the world that an individual would take out time to notice what I am doing, then apparently, it's something about me that they wish they had within themselves.
 

jw4833

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What are these 'Others' of which you speak?
:D

When I mention "others", I am speaking of my immediate family and relatives because of their traditions and practices, homosexuality is considered a sin. Therefore, because I was much younger, I did value their opinion until I was old enough to realize that it's all about what I think and what I feel that pleases me as well as my own personal acceptance being what matters the most. :)
 
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