what feelings or thinking wont help you in life?

[etilit]

who am i to ask that? can i realy understand what you might say?

remember this...you never asked me this..lol

 

[BigBenni]

Well I'm more a realistic person but I found out that I can "survive" best when I keep my positive vibes. Ok, I always try to keep them Of course ther are bad days too.

I think as long as you have goals in your life then everything works fine

One very famous musician, Herbert von Karajan, said one time:

Who thinks to have reached all his goals, put them too low.

I think this is a wonderful credo and couldn't be formulated better :thumbs up:

 

[tonka]

Holding onto grudges. I try to let them go, since it hurts me as well as the other....but it is a struggle.

 

[Sinnerr]

you can't affect feelings. cos it's just about your personality and enviroment around you, so you can affect your enviroment at most. In the case of thinking it's simple just think positive and be an optimist. And don't ask why, just do it. You could find many many reasons to be pessimist and negative thinking. But all alchemy of happiness is searching and keeping good things. And lefting bad things. It's simple anyone could be happy if would want.

 

[trencherman]

Regret for things you cannot correct is I think an anvil hanging on your neck as you plod through life.

 

[Eshton]

When in trouble, to be troubled is to have your trouble doubled.
Sound advise. Panic will never help you in life.