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SimplyJakeAndAlex
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Yesterday Alex and I had a very great conversation, actually he kind of stun me. We were relaxing in our bed, after a steaming sex act, and once we got finished and all cleared up, we decided to discuss about the children funds and how we were going to manage it. After all my daughter Maria-Sandra is turning 16 this year, and college is 2 years away but Alex and I were planning the funding and all.
Then out of the blue he asked me, "Jakey, you have very good looking children, your son he's one of a kind Asian/black exceptional good looking boy and your girl is so Latino hot she has boys crying over her already, what would you do if one of your children would announce you that they have been selling their body?"
Then I asked - "Why would they need to sell their body, they're fucking rich already, it's not like they need the money. I did what I did in my youth because my dad cut me off, but also...(I stopped)... OMG you're so right Alex baby! Okay you got me there."
Wow I don't really know how I would react. Because every parents wants the best for their children (at least those who cares), because I used to be in the porn industry I know how ephemeral the experience is but the sting it leaves never stopped itching. I am for my kids as I am for my boyfriend/husband very protective of their social integrity, nobody is allowed to make fun of my children or Alex while I'm with them. But now how would I react if my daughter, my first child would come one night saying that she has been featuring in a porn videos.
Frankly I'd be mad at first, not really for her being in porn, mostly because I know the industry used her beauty, not her intelligence (she's very smart). Then I'd ask her how she feels about it, what brought her to decide to make porn movies. We are in our family very sexually outspoken, I do not use the flowers and the bees to explain normal biology to my children and thus from the very beginning; my children knew that men have penises, women have vaginas and the penis goes into the vagina to make babies, some penises goes into other men anuses (like daddy and uncle Alex) but that's not the way to make babies, but it's definitely another way to have fun. So from the beginning my children haven't been lied to regarding sexuality, which also cause another problem, their openness to sex is greater than other average child of the same age. With Alex being gay, sexually thirsty and a nurse and their dad whom used to be a VHS whore and son of a doctor, their knowledge of sex is very extended compared to many other child.
So what would I do, because frankly I have nothing against porn because it does serve its purposes, but knowing that one or two or three of my children decided to go on and make porn movies when they really didn't have to, that I'd be very concerned. Not the sex really, the idea of them being used for their physical awesomeness as opposed to their intelligence is what worries me. When my daughter first had sex with her boyfriend at 14 (yeah yeah 14) she came to Alex to ask him if she should and this brought a family meeting in my study (yes I have a study LOL, this is the place where I write and create everything about my companies, with candles and classical music and a monster library, but it is also the place where serious discussion occurs). We asked her if she was really ready for it, that her bf didn't forced it on her, and later on before the act, I've met the BF in my study and asked so intimate question, the boy (very good looking) didn't know how to sit still lol. But they did have sex and because Alex is her confident, I know that things went very well between them because of that extended talk we had.
But porn is another story, and that I really don't know how I will react honestly, because I know the industry, I know the people, I know the fake and the deception and I know the scars it leaves. You can look at any porn stars today and although they look so happy on film, there's a dark cloud floating above their heads and that dark cloud is called "social judgment" and this shouldn't be taken likely.
So in conclusion I would not accept any of my child to be a porn stars, but they have their own mind and own desires, we raise our child to face society, and I believe I'm very good at giving them a realistic picture of what society is and how to interact with it, but as a dad, I won't be pleased to know that some porn producers take advantage of my child physical beauty for their own selfish profit.
So you guys from GH, no matter if you have kids or not, how would you react? This isn't a type of question where you can just reply with preconceptional "mumbo jumbo" about parenting and porn, you do have to develop your rhetoric.
Cheers! Jake:cheers:
Then out of the blue he asked me, "Jakey, you have very good looking children, your son he's one of a kind Asian/black exceptional good looking boy and your girl is so Latino hot she has boys crying over her already, what would you do if one of your children would announce you that they have been selling their body?"
Then I asked - "Why would they need to sell their body, they're fucking rich already, it's not like they need the money. I did what I did in my youth because my dad cut me off, but also...(I stopped)... OMG you're so right Alex baby! Okay you got me there."
Wow I don't really know how I would react. Because every parents wants the best for their children (at least those who cares), because I used to be in the porn industry I know how ephemeral the experience is but the sting it leaves never stopped itching. I am for my kids as I am for my boyfriend/husband very protective of their social integrity, nobody is allowed to make fun of my children or Alex while I'm with them. But now how would I react if my daughter, my first child would come one night saying that she has been featuring in a porn videos.
Frankly I'd be mad at first, not really for her being in porn, mostly because I know the industry used her beauty, not her intelligence (she's very smart). Then I'd ask her how she feels about it, what brought her to decide to make porn movies. We are in our family very sexually outspoken, I do not use the flowers and the bees to explain normal biology to my children and thus from the very beginning; my children knew that men have penises, women have vaginas and the penis goes into the vagina to make babies, some penises goes into other men anuses (like daddy and uncle Alex) but that's not the way to make babies, but it's definitely another way to have fun. So from the beginning my children haven't been lied to regarding sexuality, which also cause another problem, their openness to sex is greater than other average child of the same age. With Alex being gay, sexually thirsty and a nurse and their dad whom used to be a VHS whore and son of a doctor, their knowledge of sex is very extended compared to many other child.
So what would I do, because frankly I have nothing against porn because it does serve its purposes, but knowing that one or two or three of my children decided to go on and make porn movies when they really didn't have to, that I'd be very concerned. Not the sex really, the idea of them being used for their physical awesomeness as opposed to their intelligence is what worries me. When my daughter first had sex with her boyfriend at 14 (yeah yeah 14) she came to Alex to ask him if she should and this brought a family meeting in my study (yes I have a study LOL, this is the place where I write and create everything about my companies, with candles and classical music and a monster library, but it is also the place where serious discussion occurs). We asked her if she was really ready for it, that her bf didn't forced it on her, and later on before the act, I've met the BF in my study and asked so intimate question, the boy (very good looking) didn't know how to sit still lol. But they did have sex and because Alex is her confident, I know that things went very well between them because of that extended talk we had.
But porn is another story, and that I really don't know how I will react honestly, because I know the industry, I know the people, I know the fake and the deception and I know the scars it leaves. You can look at any porn stars today and although they look so happy on film, there's a dark cloud floating above their heads and that dark cloud is called "social judgment" and this shouldn't be taken likely.
So in conclusion I would not accept any of my child to be a porn stars, but they have their own mind and own desires, we raise our child to face society, and I believe I'm very good at giving them a realistic picture of what society is and how to interact with it, but as a dad, I won't be pleased to know that some porn producers take advantage of my child physical beauty for their own selfish profit.
So you guys from GH, no matter if you have kids or not, how would you react? This isn't a type of question where you can just reply with preconceptional "mumbo jumbo" about parenting and porn, you do have to develop your rhetoric.
Cheers! Jake:cheers: