What is... sex to you?

[R_ver]

why sex is so boring to me !,, i used to like it, but now,,, whenever i think of having sex with a guy i have this annoying and guilty but i still love guys, am i turning straight? i dont want to be straight

so, how about you? :thinking:

 

[Otage]

why sex is so boring to me !,, i used to like it, but now,,, whenever i think of having sex with a guy i have this annoying and guilty but i still love guys, am i turning straight? i dont want to be straight

so, how about you? :thinking:

So is the idea of having sex with a guys boring or the actual sex? Are you having too much meaningless sex with random people with non emotions involved? If the idea of sex is boring, then have you overloaded your head with all sorts of porn? Do you maybe have lots of other stuff burdening your mind atm, that can cause decrease in your sex drive? Maybe you wanna have a deeper connection with someone, and not just anymore the plain old sex? And why to get annoyed and guilty?

And you are not turning straight, unless sex with women is starting to get interesting

 

[fatty]

I can't sleep with someone unless there is a connection. Because I love deeply I cannot do the NSA thing. So to me, making love is pleasurable and slow. It should never be boring if you try out everything and experiment. I've heard guys boast about how great they are but all they want to do is fuck and their idea of good and mine are poles apart. Take your time and relax. Don't say "open sesame" to all of them. Wait before you enter the tunnel of love! And when you do - an hour and a half minimum and then try to come back and stay it is boring?

 

[trencherman]

Just the abiding theme of my life, next to good food, then art, literature and music.

 

[Shelter]

For me sex is that's what gives it that extra something of the day - surely not every day but most days of the week, month, year! Without sex - good sex, sex that shows me that I'm beloved and that I can give in deep love - honestly my life would be empty. Sex will give us the strength for the work of the next day, week, year! I love it to be the bottom of my manly partner to give him satisfaction and as well to receive satisfaction.

 

[Ralph69]

This is a very interesting post, sex for me is like heaven, but I need to feel loved, doesn't matter if I'm very attracted to the other guy, I dont feel the same after having sex with someone without love, yes I love sex, with the right person, giving and receiving, sex is a powerful tool, weird or not, I born that way.

 

[jw4833]

Sex for me is something that is very sensual, intimate and beautiful with the right individual. The reason I say this is because unlike random sex...having sex with someone that you have obtain a connection with as well as chemistry can elevate my sex level to a very nice feeling good about expressing myself sexually without any reservations so to speak. Personally...I LOVE SEX!!! ... and with the right person ...can you say "FREAK"...haha...just being honest...but something that I've never been that big of a "fan" of is having random sex just to get off....not saying that I haven't done it in those instantaneous moments when I was so much younger...but those moments were few in between. What I really love about sex is knowing that I am satisfying my partner to the upmost and I know this by his moans, the way his moves his body to my sexual advances and the way his facial expressions tells me so or his eyes rolls back into his head when I did something to hit that spot so to speak. For me...that is gratifying in a lot of ways. With that being said...if you are not feeling or experiencing none of the above while engaging ...then it could be quite possible that you need to take another objective/perspective to bring your "sexy" back or interest...because sex is too beautiful of a thing to lose interest in altogether...just my opinion...