What´s your opinion about that, that´s not a joke!

[Jane47]

Hi
I´d like to hear your opinion:
Recently I met a buddie of mine, not a boyfriend. I know he is gay, but not outed. More importantly, He doesn´t know that I like boys.

Now let me tell,
He told me that only boys, who are bottom, would be gay, boys who are top are not gay:no:. Does he try to explain himself or what? I didn´have the heart :blushing:to tell him that i know he is gay.
I HAVE TO ADD, he is very conservative......~X(

greetings
Jan

 

[newage]

haha, i'd say the poor man is in denial...but im sure in time he'll learn...and i hope your'll be there to guide him toward the path that is best for him.

 

[LuiM]

Yea, he believes in that cliche I mean in the idea (which is strongly present in lot's of gay porn too) that you can be completely straight if being just top with a man. Well you can be straight as a top of course. But you can be straight also as a bottom. Only not in real life. I'd say this is kind of gay fantasy. Especially gay men who didn't completely accept themselves they want to be fucked buy "real" men - straight men. And I'd say newage is right. Your friend is in denial. He's afraid he's not a real man if he's gay. :worried:
Hopefully you will know how to be there for him. I mean help him

 

[brmstn69]

Yea, he believes in that cliche I mean in the idea (which is strongly present in lot's of gay porn too) that you can be completely straight if being just top with a man. Well you can be straight as a top of course. But you can be straight also as a bottom. Only not in real life. I'd say this is kind of gay fantasy. Especially gay men who didn't completely accept themselves they want to be fucked buy "real" men - straight men. And I'd say newage is right. Your friend is in denial. He's afraid he's not a real man if he's gay. :worried:
Hopefully you will know how to be there for him. I mean help him

Yes, with a sling and leather restraints...:devil:

Surprisingly, this attitude is also quite common in Islamic culture. It's OK to use another man for sexual pleasure, but for a man to allow himself to be used as a woman, that's as low as one can go...

Even funnier, according to a friend whose been training police in Iraq, it seems that this attitude does not extend to oral sex. He tells me that he's constantly catching his trainees sucking each other off in some out of the way corner...

 

[LuiM]

You're right. Hmm. We should ask Jan if his friend is Islamic. Maybe he really is.
But as you pointed it out in Islam this is the way of humiliating your opponent. Also in jail I guess.

 

[Jane47]

thanx for your comments so far,


he is Turkish (his parents), but was born in Germany. He adopted the german citizenship since he was 18. If he is islamic, I don´t know but I assume.

 

[luxferre]

thanx for your comments so far,


he is Turkish (his parents), but was born in Germany. He adopted the german citizenship since he was 18. If he is islamic, I don´t know but I assume.

So Am I (islamic) but hell I like dick.....its not stopping me to have sex (coming out is out of question)

 

[Topperscott]

Yep, another top here and gay as they come. The definition of gay has nothing to do with what you like to do sexually, it has to do with whom you chose to do it with.

 

[LuiM]

They made one of "Saddam Hussein" sodomizing a young male. They had distributed one of "Bin Laden" and his lieutenants blowing each other.

Where did they publish these vids? :?

 

[ritsuka]

I think that comment is intensely stupid, deluded macheesemo trash. I can't stand guys who think they're so straight and macho because they insist on having one-sided sex with their partners, and are too lazy and emotionally immature to realize how pleasurable anal sex can be on both sides. But indeed, they aren't good enough to be gay, and are better off as closet-frauds.

 

[Askani]

I'm a Top too and mostly gay... c'mon! it's not even about being a top, if u go for it... more than once u cant even say u're curious, straight then... pffft xD. I can even hear his brain screaming to himself in the bathroom and during sex:"My butt's sealed I'm not gay, my butt's sealed, I'm not gay" xD it's hilarious. I think I'd try to seduce the dude, just to check how far I'd get, in a charming, boyish buddy buddy pace. Teasing most of the time, never getting him off till he ended up exploding... but then again, knowing me I'd end up falling for the troubled guy xD