My opinions counts for little, it's the Gay Heaven rules that are more important;
2.3. All filehosts for downloading of videos must also provide an option for the user to download it freely (i.e., not requiring a membership in order to download). Also, no external software must have to be utilized to download.
If a file is so large that it not practical to download it as a free user, then I suggest that it is breaking this site rule. This is situation has crept up on us like the frog in the pan of hot water. The file hosts are the ones who throttle download speeds, they are private businesses so they have every right to do this, the idea is to pressurise free users into becoming paid users. I do not believe that any posters have broken rule 2.3 knowingly, it has just happened that as file sizes get bigger without a matching increase in speed, the 'free' option becomes an 'only if you are lucky' option.
Other, less salubrious, porn sites don't have this rule, This site is better than all those others. Long may it remain so.