When I say I'm gay, it doesn't mean I wanna have sex

[Otage]

For the first time in my life I punched a guy in face. He came to me and started telling me how good looking I am, and I thanked him and said I'm not interested. Then he asked if I'm gay, and I replied "Yes, I am. But I'm not interested". So when I said I'm gay, he came on to me so I pushed him away. Then he tried to kiss me, so I punched him and left. I said I'm gay, but I also said two times, that I'm not interested.

And that wasn't the first time when I have admitted to being gay and someone immediatly thinks I wanna have sex with him. Gets me furious:angry: I wanna have sex with people I like and now, not anyone who happens to be gay. Very good looking, well I still would like to get known him a little better and not just have sex. Next time I'm gonna say im straight...~X(

 

[hadess]

I wanna to have sex with U, too! p C:C

 

[Urban]

I wanna to have sex with U, too!

Haha, I'll second that!

All I can say is, you must be a ringer for Chris Evans, or whoever your favorite hottie is; your problem is definitely one I've never had!

Seriously, maybe you're hanging around in the wrong places. I'm not suggesting that you avoid the clubs or anywhere else, all I mean is that most guys are not like the ones you're describing, and maybe you'd enjoy someplace where you'd find more companionship & less comeon.

 

[jw4833]

I totally can relate...I had the same issue a couple of months ago. It doesn't make sense to me..just because you're gay doesn't mean that you want to get busy. Unfortunately, there are a lot of guys who think along those lines. Its just like when a guy buys you a drink and under the assumption that they are going to get lucky. When this happens to me, I return the favor of buying that person a drink as well..just to let them know that there's all it is and if its something more...I will let them know that there is an interest.

 

[Otage]

Well if it was even in a club or someplace like that. Once happened in a trains smoking room And come to think of it... me thinking like this in Gayheaven. Maybe I should move to some other blog or somenthing

 

[bigsal]

Well if it was even in a club or someplace like that. Once happened in a trains smoking room And come to think of it... me thinking like this in Gayheaven. Maybe I should move to some other blog or somenthing

In my opinion, I repeat only, in my opinion, is a contradictory statement. :thinking:

Saying: "Maybe I should move to some other blog or somenthing" You act like the others, those accused by you, generalizing without distinction. :no:

This is a forum where sex is prevalent. You'll never find people like ... Maria Teresa of Calcutta. :rofl:

 

[VinceSF]

For the first time in my life I punched a guy in face. He came to me and started telling me how good looking I am, and I thanked him and said I'm not interested. Then he asked if I'm gay, and I replied "Yes, I am. But I'm not interested". So when I said I'm gay, he came on to me so I pushed him away. Then he tried to kiss me, so I punched him and left. I said I'm gay, but I also said two times, that I'm not interested.

If I were you I would have kicked his balls! :thumbs up:

 

[josh_the_hot_boy]

I would have said if I wanted crabs I'd go to Red Lobster.

 

[Otage]

If I were you I would have kicked his balls! :thumbs up:

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